What your taste in men says about you: TikTok psychologist 株 the 7 'types' daters have - and what they 明らかにする／漏らす about your childhood and personality

By Elena Salvoni For Mailonline

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A TikTok psychologist has given her run 負かす／撃墜する of what your taste in men or women could tell you about yourself.

Francesca Tighinean recently 完全にするd her psychology bachelors at City University in London and has since 首尾よく modelled herself as a life coach.

The London-based 卒業生（する） has 伸び（る）d a 抱擁する に引き続いて from 株ing her 関係 tips on TikTok, covering a 範囲 of topics from how to attract a partner to how to 伝える 信用／信任 through 団体／死体 language.

In a 一連の ビデオs she explains what attraction to 確かな people, such as older and younger 見込みのある partners, 'bad boys' and those who are 'emotionally unavailable', might say about your character.?

存在 attracted to older or younger people

If you usually go for older people, Francesca explains that the 推論する／理由 behind this might be rooted in your childhood.?

'存在 attracted to older people can signify that you're looking for a "parent" to take care of you because you've got unsatisfied needs of love and validation from your childhood,' she explained.?

一方／合間, for those who typically go for romantic partners who are younger than themselves, Francesca 示唆するs this could be to do with you taking a parental 役割 during your childhood.

'It could be because as a child you were the 管理人 and you had to take care of your siblings or even parents, and this makes you feel needed,' she said.

Francesca Tighinean explains the possible reason behind why you might be attracted to older people in one of her TikToks
The influencer suggests that atraction to older people could be linked to 'unsatisfied needs of love and validation from your childhood'

Francesca Tighinean explains the possible 推論する／理由 behind why you might be attracted to older people in one of her TikToks

Going for emotionally unavailable people?

'If you're attracted to people that are unavailable because they are in a 関係 or they're abroad it could mean that YOU have かかわり合い 問題／発行するs because with these 肉親，親類d of people you don't have to fully commit.'

She 追加するs in another clip that going for people who don't feel the same way about you could 示唆する low self-esteem.

'If you're attracted to people who don't like you 支援する, it could be because unconsciously you have this belief that you need to fight for love and you don't just deserve it,' she said.

Jealous or over-保護の people

'If you're attracted to 極端に 保護の or 極端に-jealous people it could be because you have unmet childhood needs of 存在 taken care of and 保護するd,' Francesca explained.?

She 追加するd that you might be 'looking for an extreme 見解／翻訳／版 of that so you really feel like someone is taking care of you and 保護するing you'.

'If you're attracted to overly protective or overly-jealous people,' Francesca says, 'it could be because you have unmet childhood needs of being taken care of and protected'

'If you're attracted to 極端に 保護の or 極端に-jealous people,' Francesca says, 'it could be because you have unmet childhood needs of 存在 taken care of and 保護するd'

'Bad boys' or 'bad girls'

Francesca says people whose type is a little rough around the 辛勝する／優位s, can often be 'too good' themselves.?

'You're repressing your 消極的な 質s like 侵略 or arrogance,' she 示唆するs.

'So you're unconsciously looking for someone to help 解放する that repression.'

People いっそう少なく 'attractive' than yourself?

The psychology grad also had advice for people who go for people who are いっそう少なく 慣例的に 'attractive' than themselves.

She explained that this 'could be because you're afraid of abandonment, so you chose someone that's lower in mate value than you are so they're いっそう少なく likely to abandon you and will 扱う／治療する you better.'

As might be 推定する／予想するd,?mate value 言及するs to someone's perceived 'desireability' ーに関して／ーの点でs of reproductive success and attractiveness, for example.

The psychology grad also had advice for people who go for people who are less conventionally 'attractive' than themselves

The psychology grad also had advice for people who go for people who are いっそう少なく 慣例的に 'attractive' than themselves

有毒な partners

In the final instalment of the advice ビデオs, Francesca says that those who are attracted to '有毒な people' could 'unconsciously... 現実に enjoy the 演劇'.

'The 大混乱 feels familiar because you might have experienced that in your childhood and you might even find normal 関係s boring,' she 示唆するd.?

Fictional characters?

If your main 鎮圧する is a character on TV or in a 調書をとる／予約する, it's a 保護の 機械装置.?

'If you're attracted to fictional characters, it could be because you idealise love and you put it on a pedestal,' Francesca explains.

'This is a child's thinking that lives in their imagination instead of doing the real thing so they don't get 傷つける.

'But this way of thinking is 有毒な to yourself because love is not ideal and it has ugly 味方するs to it and that is normal.'?

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