My boyfriend wants me to leave my child in economy while we 飛行機で行く 商売／仕事 class - he says my child should just be 感謝する for the trip

By Shannon Mcguigan

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A mother has 誘発するd a furious 審議 after 明らかにする／漏らすing her partner 手配中の，お尋ね者 her 13-year-old to sit in economy as the pair enjoyed 商売／仕事 class.

A woman, who is believed to be from US, asked Reddit if it would be 不適切な for her son to sit alone in economy on a flight that would likely be nine hours long.

Her child wouldn't be permitted to sit with the mother and step-father, as によれば her, her partner doesn't want him there.

The mother's boyfriend of five years believes the child should just be 感謝する for the international trip.

Reddit 使用者s were left furious with the mother for the suggestion, with one 令状ing: 'So we already know he doesn't like your kid, what other 抱擁する red 旗s are you ignoring with this guy?'

The mother, who is believed to be from the US, sparked a wave of fury among Redditors as she queried if it would be inappropriate to leave her child in economy while she and her partner fly in business class (stock image)

The mother, who is believed to be from the US, 誘発するd a wave of fury の中で Redditors as she queried if it would be 不適切な to leave her child in economy while she and her partner 飛行機で行く in 商売／仕事 class (在庫／株 image)

She told the platform that her partner did not want her 13-year-old in business class with them and believes the child should be grateful for the trip

She told the 壇・綱領・公約 that her partner did not want her 13-year-old in 商売／仕事 class with them and believes the child should be 感謝する for the trip

She tried to rationalize her partner's behavior by saying he spent money on her child's various milestones over the course of their five year relationship

She tried to rationalize her partner's 行為 by 説 he spent money on her child's さまざまな milestones over the course of their five year 関係

The 33-year-old mother took to the Reddit 会議 to explain that they reached this predicament while she and her partner were 組織するing a 目的地 holiday for the 'blended' family of three.

She (a)手の込んだ／(v)詳述するd that the pair 分裂（する） the cost of the holiday for the three, although her boyfriend earns '意味ありげに' more than her.

Her 40-year-old boyfriend thinks 調書をとる／予約するing her 13-year-old a 商売／仕事 class ticket is 'not 価値（がある） the extra cost, even if he were a millionaire.'

He 推定する／予想するs the 十代の少年少女 to enjoy the films and amenities in economy, explaining the child can visit the pair throughout the flight.

The mother said if the child were to travel in the same class as the pair, she would be have to 支払う／賃金 for the 昇格.

She wrote that t he boyfriend thinks it is 半端物 and 'morally wrong' for her to even do so.

によれば her, her partner would be happy to sit in 商売／仕事 class alone, while she …を伴ってs her child??

The woman tried to rationalize her partners 行為 に向かって her child 説: 'He has spent plenty of money and time on my child, for birthdays, events and milestones.?

'They get along 井戸／弁護士席 and have had very few upsets.'

She 追加するd: 'Every now and then I've had to stick up for one or the other but I feel like that's to be 推定する／予想するd with blended families.

But Reddit 使用者s have been left 絶対 baffled that the mother is okay with her partner's 行為／行う に向かって her child.

One person commented: 'Yes a 13-year-old can travel in a different class 罰金. Heck, they could travel alone.?

'But there's just something unsettling about a parent 存在 on the same flight but in a different class. Does your boyfriend 普通は disrespect your child?'

Another person chimed in: 'It’s unsettling because it’s planned. If it happened unintentionally I think everyone could roll with it.?

'But deliberately putting your 13-year-old far away from you because it’s a waste of money is very unsettling.'

One 使用者 追加するd: 'Sit in economy with your son. Let your boyfriend sit in 商売／仕事 class alone.?

'If you start letting him 除外する your son he will think it's okay and continue 押し進めるing that 境界.'

Others 勧めるd the mother to be aware of how her boyfriend's 活動／戦闘s could 衝撃 her child, 明言する／公表するing: 'If this is how your boyfriend is going to 扱う／治療する your kid, you’d better 再考する your 関係.?

'It’s not going to be just a 商売／仕事 class flight ticket that’s going to be the problem.'

However, not everyone was in 協定 about the step-father 存在 in the wrong, with one 使用者 令状ing: 'If I was 13 I wouldn't want to sit anywhere 近づく my parents on an airplane.

'It also wouldn't occur to me that I was in any way する権利を与えるd to sit in first class. I'd just assume it was an adult thing.?

'And if the kid does have an 問題／発行する, just say something like - you can have first class when you're 21.'

Another quipped: 'I don’t think it’s weird for kids to sit 異なって from adults. It’s 9 hours in a 比較して 安全な, enclosed space.'

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