I had »ö·ï¡¿»ö¾ð¡¿¾õÀªs all the time! What would Barbara Good say? Who cares, says Felicity Kendal, as she tells just how naughty she can be

Felicity Kendal is a strange creature. The lovely late Richard Briers¡Çs word not ÃÏÍë, but I get his point.

She chops and changes her mind like the Å·¸õ. Take smoking. In one breath she says she¡Çs given up and the next¡Ä ¡ÆWhen I say I don¡Çt smoke any more, I smoke after dinner and yesterday taking the dogs for a walk I had a smoke,¡Ç she says. ¡ÆI love it but it isn¡Çt like smoking ? smoke, smoke, smoke in your ľÌ̤¹¤ë. I don¡Çt µÛ¤¤¹þ¤à.

¡ÆAnd I don¡Çt smoke in Á°Àþ of anybody ? you know, the family ? because they get cross. The only moment I was made ¿¼¤¯¡¤¶¯Îõ¤Ë unhappy on holiday recently was when I was sitting on the veranda. I had my diet Coke and I lit up a cigarette. Some b*****d ¡Êµ¡¤Î¡Ë¥«¥à over and said, ¡ÈOh, I didn¡Çt think you smoked.¡É¡Ç

To tell the truth, I¡Çm pretty º®Í𤵤»¤ëd myself now. Hey Çä½ÕÉØ.

Four decades, two marriages and various love affairs have been and gone since Felicity launched a million male fantasies as Barbara Good

Four £±£°Ç¯´Ös, two marriages and ¤µ¤Þ¤¶¤Þ¤Ê love »ö·ï¡¿»ö¾ð¡¿¾õÀªs have been and gone since Felicity ³«»Ï¤¹¤ë¡¤ÂǤÁ¾å¤²¤ëd a million male fantasies as Barbara Good

The whether-Felicity-smokes-or-not thing has cropped up because we¡Çre talking about Richard, with whom she appeared as one of the best-loved TV couples in British comedy on BBC1¡Çs The Good Life. Ebullient Tom and pert-Äì¡Ê¤ËÆϤ¯¡Ëd Barbara Good.

Forever blissfully together in the ¹ñ²È¤Î consciousness thanks to endless repeats of the classic 70s sitcom ? but, sadly, no longer in life. Richard died of emphysema Ϸǯ¤Î 79 three months ago. ¡ÆFive hundred thousand cigarettes, darling ? that¡Çs the trouble,¡Ç Richard told me in what was to be his last interview a »öÊÁ of weeks before his death.

The changeable Felicity was swimming with ³¤¤¬¤ás in Barbados with her boyfriend-cum-husband-cum-boyfriend Michael Rudman (more of whom later) at the time.

It turns out she hadn¡Çt seen Richard for two years and ¿½¤·¹þ¤à¡¿¿½¤·½Ðd little support during his five-year illness, ¼çÍ×¤Ê the ¡Ælovely, lovely, dear, dear man¡Ç (her words) to È¿±Ç¤¹¤ë, ¡ÆShe seems to have disappeared in a strange way. She¡Çs an ¶Ã¤¯¤Ù¤­¡¿ÆÃÌ¿¤Î¡¿Î×»þ¤Î girl. I don¡Çt really know who she is. Never did. She was always an attractive girl and she¡Çs still pretty young but you know she¡Çs very strange. Enchanting, but very strange.¡Ç?

Felicity was in the middle of packing at the end of her holiday when she was told of Richard¡Çs death. ¡ÆMy boyfriend said, ¡ÈI just want you to sit É餫¤¹¡¿·âÄƤ¹¤ë, I¡Çve got something to tell you.¡É He told me and said, ¡ÈIt¡Çs on the news and on the internet.¡É My ¥¹¥Ñ¥¤¡¿¼¹¹Ô´± had also rung and left a message.

'ÌÀÇò¤Ë, you get asked to comment but I said, ¡ÈLook, I¡Çm not there.¡É I¡Çm really pleased I wasn¡Çt there, not because I wouldn¡Çt have done it, but because I¡Çd rather not have done it.¡Ç Because Richard said you were strange?

¡ÆNo, because I think it¡Çs a personal thing with somebody that¡Çs a friend, dying,¡Ç she says. ¡ÆI was really, really sad. I knew he wasn¡Çt °æ¸Í¡¿ÊÛ¸î»ÎÀÊ but I didn¡Çt know he was ¤ä¤á¤ë so unwell¡Ä¡Ç She pauses for a moment and her ÃíÌܤ¹¤ë¡¤¤â¤¯¤í¤às, which sparkle much as they did in The Good Life days, drift off.

¡ÆI know Dickie,¡Ç she co ntinues. ¡ÆI can hear him Àâ, ¡ÈShe was a bit strange. She was an Ⱦüʪ one. She was always doing this and always doing that.¡É That¡Çs how he was and that¡Çs how he talked to me. There are ¤ä¤á¤ë a few people I¡Çve worked with I¡Çd ¸½¼Â¤Ë have thought, ¡ÈThat¡Çs a bit off,¡É if I¡Çd read comments like that. But I have to say, ¼êÅϤ¹ on heart, I¡Çm not remotely ´¶¾ð¤ò³²¤¹¤ë¡¿°ãÈ¿¤¹¤ëd.

By 37 she'd met and married Texas-born theatre director Rudman, who is now 'the boyfriend'

By 37 she'd met and married Texas-born theatre director Rudman, who is now 'the boyfriend'

'That¡Çs just so Dickie. If he was °æ¸Í¡¿ÊÛ¸î»ÎÀÊ, he¡Çd have probably said three interviews later, ¡È°æ¸Í¡¿ÊÛ¸î»ÎÀÊ, ¸½¼Â¤Ë, I didn¡Çt mean it like that.¡É Or, ¡ÈShe¡Çs the biggest cow going.¡É¡Ç She sighs. ¡ÆWe used to be very, very ¤Î¶á¤¯¤Ë and were for a long, long time. But I hadn¡Çt worked with Dickie since The Good Life ? only several little ¿¦¶Ès three or four years ago ? so one does move on.¡Ç

Indeed. Four £±£°Ç¯´Ös, two marriages and ¤µ¤Þ¤¶¤Þ¤Ê love »ö·ï¡¿»ö¾ð¡¿¾õÀªs have been and gone since Felicity ³«»Ï¤¹¤ë¡¤ÂǤÁ¾å¤²¤ëd a million male fantasies as Barbara Good.

She¡Çs now 66 but could easily pass for her daughter ? if she had one ? with her skinny-legged torn ¥¸¡¼¥ó¥ºs and plump cheeks. Spending ¡Æa small fortune¡Ç on the pricey Cr?me de la Mer and Botox Ãí¼Ís helps. ¡ÆI di d try fillers once,¡Ç she says.

¡ÆDon¡Çt ever have fillers because when your cheekbones are high it¡Çs chipmunk time. The only thing to do ·ë¶É is the ½½Ê¬¤Ê thing.¡Ç She ÏÀ¾Ú¤¹¤ës a facelift. ¡ÆBut you have to do that when you¡Çre 40.¡Ç
We¡Çre ¸½¼Â¤Ë here in a swish London hotel because Felicity is starring in Alan Ayckbourn¡Çs hilarious Sixties farce Èæ³Ó¤·¤Æ Speaking in the West End. Coincidentally, one of Richard¡Çs earliest successes on the West End ¹Ô¤¦¡¿³«ºÅ¤¹¤ë¡¿Ãʳ¬ was in the 1967 À¸»º¡¿»ºÊª of the play, with Celia Johnson and Michael Hordern.

¡ÆThe lovely ÃèÊÖ¤êÈô¹Ô is that Dickie was in it as a young man,¡Ç says Felicity. ¡ÆHe was an incredible success so there¡Çs a lovely circle there. It¡Çs »Ï¤á¤ë¡¤·è¤á¤ë in the Sixties and is ´ðËÜŪ¤Ë about infidelity, love and marriage ? or not marriage. There¡Çs the ÅÁÅýŪ¤Ê wife [Felicity¡Çs Ìò³ä, played by Celia in the ½é¤á¤Î] and then you¡Çve got a very young woman [Kara Tointon], who is the young woman of today. She doesn¡Çt believe in marriage and will have »ö·ï¡¿»ö¾ð¡¿¾õÀªs when she wants.¡Ç

Much like Felicity, it turns out. ¡ÆI always did have »ö·ï¡¿»ö¾ð¡¿¾õÀªs when I ¼êÇÛÃæ¤Î¡¤¤ª¿Ò¤Í¼Ô,¡Ç she says with such a Barbara-Goody-goody-butter-wouldn¡Çt-melt smile you¡Çd think she was ¼«Çò¤¹¤ëing to flower arranging at the Ãϸµ¤Î church. ¡ÆIt¡Çs just how you are at the moment. Look, the aura of sweetness and light associated with Barbara Good has got b****r all to do with my life.

The Good Life was a short period 40 years ago but it¡Çs ±äŤ¹¤ëd to now because it¡Çs on all the f****ing time and it¡Çs what people talk about. Barbara Good, she wasn¡Çt a real person. She wasn¡Çt a Chekhovian character with the dark and the light.

¡ÆIt¡Çs ¤ä¤á¤ë flattering that I did it so °æ¸Í¡¿ÊÛ¸î»ÎÀÊ people think she¡Çs real, but in a sense Richard¡Çs ¸¢Íø. He knew damn °æ¸Í¡¿ÊÛ¸î»ÎÀÊ the character I played wasn¡Çt me. I don¡Çt think I¡Çve ever not had a dark Ì£Êý¤¹¤ë. But one of the wonderful ¿äÏÀ¤¹¤ë¡¿Íýͳs why you go into this ¾¦Çä¡¿»Å»ö is that half your life you live in a fantasy, which is somebody else¡Çs life. It¡Çs ¸½¼Â¤Ë a ¹­Âç¤Ê¡¿Â¿¿ô¤Î¡¿½ÅÍ×¤Ê ²òÊü¡Ê¤¹¤ë¡Ë because you¡Çre not having to ¤ò¼è¤ê°ú¤­¤¹¤ë the itty-bitty bits of life.¡Ç


?¡ÆDon¡Çt ever have fillers because when your cheekbones are high it¡Çs chipmunk time. The only thing to do ·ë¶É is the ½½Ê¬¤Ê thing'

Felicity was in the Ãæ±û of her first, tricky marriage to actor Drewe Henley, with whom she has a 40-year-old son, Charley, when she worked on The Good Life. Drewe was a manic depressive, and she struggled to Âн褹¤ë.

¡ÆWhy is a moth drawn to a ±ê¾å when it¡Çs going to dz¤ä¤¹ the s*** out of it?¡Ç muses Felicity, who had hot-footed it to England at 17 from an unsettled childhood in India ¾®Î¹¹Ô¤¹¤ëing in a repertory company with her actor-·Ð±Ä¼Ô¡¿»ÙÇÛ¿Í father Geoffrey, mother Laura and sister Jennifer.

¡ÆMy parents were very volatile but very loving. My father would get jealous if my mother looked at somebody. I used to be insanely jealous. It comes out of insecurity. It can come and go but you get to the point in life where you don¡Çt have this ·ãÅܡʤ¹¤ë¡Ëing jealousy and protectiveness about your world.

'I¡Çm more relaxed about things now. I don¡Çt have the nervousness I used to have. That¡Çs the difference between the person who was doing Barbara Good and now.¡Ç

Felicity tells me she¡Çs living life ¡Æ»Ù±ç¤¹¤ë-to-Á°Àþ¡Ç, which perhaps accounts for her visits to the tattoo parlour. She has a moon and a À±¡¿¼çÌò¤Ë¤¹¤ë, and now wants a third, a ³¤¤¬¤á, after swimming with them in Barbados. ¡ÆI¡ Çve no idea why,¡Ç she says. ¡ÆThere¡Çs something Àè»Ë¤Î about a ³¤¤¬¤á. It¡Çs rather ´Å¤¤ but it¡Çs also ¤ä¤á¤ë fey.¡Ç

Today, Felicity says she wouldn¡Çt ¸ò´¹¡Ê¤¹¤ë¡Ë her sixties for her younger life for all the garden mulch in Surbiton. ¡ÆI wasn¡Çt very Ê¿°×¤Ê in my 20s and 30s,¡Ç she says. ¡ÆI wasn¡Çt a °ÂÁ´¤Ê¡¦Êݾڤ¹¤ë person at all in any ·ÁÂÖ¡¿Ä´À°. I wouldn¡Çt like to go through that again. It was difficult.¡Ç

Indeed. Felicity was 33 when she Î¥º§d her first husband and began an »ö·ï¡¿»ö¾ð¡¿¾õÀª with the late Oscar-winning screenwriter Robert Bolt. By 37 she¡Çd met and married Texas-born theatre director Rudman, who is now ¡Æthe boyfriend¡Ç. They Î¥º§d in 1990 after seven years of marriage, then Felicity had an »ö·ï¡¿»ö¾ð¡¿¾õÀª with µÓËÜ²È Tom Stoppard, ÇËÌÇŪ¤Ê his wife, Dr Miriam Stoppard.

Within eight years choppy, changeable Felicity had returned to Rudman, with whom she has a 25-year-old son, Jacob. They¡Çve never remarried. ¡ÆWe sort of thought about it and then we stopped thinking rather quickly about it,¡Ç she says.

Felicity had an affair with playwright Tom Stoppard, devastating his wife, Dr Miriam Stoppard

Felicity had an »ö·ï¡¿»ö¾ð¡¿¾õÀª with µÓËÜ²È Tom Stoppard, ÇËÌÇŪ¤Ê his wife, Dr Miriam Stoppard

¡ÆHe¡Çs got this rather American th ing of don¡Çt ľ¤¹¡¿Çã¼ý¤¹¤ë¡¤È¬É´Ä¹¤ò¤¹¤ë what isn¡Çt broken. Maybe if we get to be very old it will be rather moving, but we sort of ¹ÔÊýÉÔÌÀ¤Ë¤Ê¤ëd the boat a bit. He¡Çs been married twice and I¡Çve been married twice.¡Ç True, but once to each other, so isn¡Çt one of the Î¥º§s rather like smoking but not µÛ¤¤¹þ¤àing? ¡ÆIt¡Çs not really that messy,¡Ç she says.

¡ÆWe¡Çve written a thing Àâ he¡Çs in ¹ðȯ¡Ê¤¹¤ë¡Ë¡¤¹ðÁʡʤ¹¤ë¡Ë¡¿ÎÁ¶â if something happens to me and I¡Çm in ¹ðȯ¡Ê¤¹¤ë¡Ë¡¤¹ðÁʡʤ¹¤ë¡Ë¡¿ÎÁ¶â if something happens to him. The only thing that worries me is if I wasn¡Çt ÆùÂÎŪ¤Ë able to be active,¡Ç she says.

I wonder if she wishes she¡Çd ÀßΩ¤¹¤ë time to see Richard during his illness. You¡Çd ¿äÄꤹ¤ë¡¿Í½ÁÛ¤¹¤ë her to say yes, but Felicity never Ãæ»ß¤¹¤ës to surprise. ¡ÆI don¡Çt know,¡Ç she says.

¡ÆWhen Paul [Paul Eddington, who appeared as Jerry Leadbetter in The Good Life and died of lymphoma in 1995] was ill, he ¡Êµ¡¤Î¡Ë¥«¥à to my shows and kept in ÀÜ¿¨¤¹¤ë a ¹­Âç¤Ê¡¿Â¿¿ô¤Î¡¿½ÅÍ×¤Ê ¼è°ú¡¤¶¨Äê. We [the ¡Æwe¡Ç ´Þ¤às Richard and Penelope Keith, who played Paul¡Çs onscreen wife, Margo] all visited him. That¡Çs what he ¼êÇÛÃæ¤Î¡¤¤ª¿Ò¤Í¼Ô. I saw him the day before he died. I would have thought if Dickie ¼êÇÛÃæ¤Î¡¤¤ª¿Ò¤Í¼Ô to see me he would have made some Æù¿Æ¡¤¿ÆÎàd of approach.

¡ÆAs I¡Çve said, I don¡Çt think he was very °æ¸Í¡¿ÊÛ¸î»ÎÀÊ, bless him. It¡Çs sad but that¡Çs life. What he said was just Dickie ¸ºß Dickie on a Tuesday. During The Good Life there was nothing we didn¡Çt know about each other. We were very, very open emotionally as friends.

'We were all going through different Ãʳ¬s and we had no secrets from each other. On Sundays, instead of staying home and thinking, ¡È¿¦¶È¡Çs done¡É, we¡Çd ²ñ¹ç¡¤²ñ¤¦ up in rotation at one another¡Çs houses for dinner. We were incredibly ¤Î¶á¤¯¤Ë ? beyond closeness. That¡Çs the way it was.

¡ÆBut the thing I find Íø±×¡¿¶½Ì£ing in the proces s of discussing life is that what you think today might not be what you thought five years ago and will certainly not be what you¡Çll think in, say, three years.

'I¡Çve lived life since Barbara Good.¡Ç Which she has in her inimitably strange but enchanting way.?


Felicity À±¡¿¼çÌò¤Ë¤¹¤ës in Èæ³Ó¤·¤Æ Speaking at London¡Çs Wyndham¡Çs Theatre until 31 August. Tel: 0844 482 5120, www.delfontmackintosh.co.uk

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