'Misogynistic' 好転 artist raises $17,000 on Kickstarter for dating guide on how to sleep with a woman even if 'she's resisting going home with you'

By Daily Mail Reporter

Published: 21:32 BST, 19 June 2013 | Updated: 08:27 BST, 20 June 2013

A man who once struggled with love but 'ended up getting pretty good with women,' has raised nearly $17,000 on Kickstarer for what has been 述べるd as a 'creepy' and misogynistic' dating guide.

Ken Hoinsky's 提案するd 調書をとる／予約する, Above The Game, is a 'step-by-step guide for getting good with women' featuring lessons from personal experience, that he says, will help men feel more 確信して.

But excerpts of the 調書をとる／予約する on Reddit show a more 悪意のある 味方する to its self-help 部類s, where Mr Hoinsky, a 31-year-old Connecticut 居住（者）, advises using lies, 巧みな操作 and alcohol to coerce a woman into sex.

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Helpful or harmful? Ken Hoinsky's 提案するd 調書をとる／予約する, Above The Game, is a 'step-by-step guide for getting good with women' featuring lessons from personal experience, that he says, will help men feel more 確信して

Salon's Katie McDonough 令状s: 'These threads encourage men to subtly manipulate and 支配する women in ways that at their best come across as creepy and misguided, and at their worst sound like the pretext for some really bad, 潜在的に 非，不，無-consensual sex.'

In a 提案するd section 肩書を与えるd 兵たん業務, Mr Hoinsky advises men to move their date to 多重の 場所s ーするために get her 支援する to their apartment.

'いつかs, if you are feeling 抵抗, planning 多重の 発生地 changes throughou t the night will work in your 好意. (妨げる／法廷，弁護士業 A -> 妨げる／法廷，弁護士業 B -> Walk on the beach -> Your apartment),' the excerpt 明言する／公表するs.

'計画（する） your dates in 前進する with a mental 地図／計画する for how you're going to get her from point A to point B,' it continues.

'Yes, that art gallery all the way across town sounds awesome. . . but it's not going to be ideal for getting her to the final 目的地 (on 最高の，を越す of your penis.)'

Mr Hoinsky, who spent three years 文書ing his 旅行 to 好転 artistry on Seddit, the 'seduction' 会議 on Reddit, before 収集するing them into his 提案するd 調書をとる／予約する, 令状s that 'understanding 兵たん業務 is often the difference between 上陸 the woman of your dreams and going home alone.'

'I always start out by 示唆するing a shitty 妨げる／法廷，弁護士業 近づく my place,' he 公式文書，認めるs. 'Why a shitty 妨げる／法廷，弁護士業? Because then I can use my favorite line in all of seduction, "This 妨げる／法廷，弁護士業 kinda sucks. I have some ワイン at my place, let's go drink there."'

He also 示唆するs that men 嘘（をつく） to women about the pretext for bringing them home, 'Even if it’s just to drink that ワイン, or check out that new Youtube ビデオ, or show her your stamp collection,' he explains.

Above The Game: The 調書をとる／予約する has raised nearly $17,000 on Kickstarer for what has been 述べるd as a 'creepy' and misogynistic' dating guide

Other tips from Mr Hoinsky, in 事例／患者 a woman puts up '抵抗 when you try and bring her home,' are manipulative 策略 that across as major red 旗s.

'Throwing out a “I don’t sleep with someone on the first date,” or “No sex, okay?” will do wonders,' he 明言する／公表するs. 'It all helps to 生成する plausible deniability.

'If it just happened while we were in the moment she will feel much more comfortable knowing she fooled around with you.

'No girl wants to feel like a slut. It’s your 職業, as the man, to make her as comfortable as possible. Also when you start to fool around, “I don’t kiss and tell.” goes a long, long way.'

One commenter called the 調書をとる／予約する 'an example of a "強姦 culture" that 扱う／治療するs women as 的s, their 弁護s to be 打ち勝つ by (almost!) any means necessary.'

The woman goes on to say: 'It may be 非，不，無-violent, but it's difficult to call it "consensual." A woman can not "同意" to 性の intercourse if she makes the 決定／判定勝ち（する） based on 誤った pretenses, with a partner 事実上の／代理 in bad 約束. This is an example of "uninformed 同意" and it is 違法な in a number of 状況s.'

For the most part, men 賞賛する Mr Hoinsky for his insights and are 熱望して を待つing the 解放（する） of his 調書をとる／予約する 'more than episodes of The Walking Dead,' as one Reddit 使用者 wrote.

However women seem to 熱心に 同意しない. One 乱すd woman wrote: 'Are you serious?. . . This is not a guide to be good with woman. It's a guide for 性の 強襲，強姦.'

によれば Mr Hoinsky, Above The Game, to be self-published in July thanks to Kickstarter, 含む／封じ込めるs 構成要素 he has 地位，任命するd to Reddit in the past, 同様に as a 'かなりの 量 of 構成要素 that I 港／避難所't published anywhere.'