From 任命する/導入するing a GPS tracker on your phone to bad-mouthing their exes and 存在 rude to waiters: Women 明らかにする/漏らす the 警告 調印するs that show you're dating a dud

  • Women took to Reddit to 株 their biggest red 旗s when it (機の)カム to men
  • One 返答 詳細(に述べる)d a dirty dalliance with an ex-girlfriend's sister
  • Another was more simple, and just 伴う/関わるd watching how he 扱う/治療するd waitstaff
  • A woman's new boyfriend 需要・要求するd she put a 跡をつけるing 装置 on her phone?

Women have 明らかにする/漏らすd the red 旗s they think everyone should be aware of when it comes to finding a male partner.

Though some tips were already 一般的に agreed on, with many people 説 a partner who 孤立するs you from your friends is a dud, some were a little more personal.?

The red 旗s, 株d through Reddit, 範囲d from a lover who 手配中の,お尋ね者 to 任命する/導入する a GPS program on their partner's 動きやすい to the way others spoke about or 扱う/治療するd their exes.

Not happy: Women took to Reddit to discuss the various red flags they had encountered in men they had been dating (stock image)

Not happy: Women took to Reddit to discuss the さまざまな red 旗s they had 遭遇(する)d in men they had been dating (在庫/株 image)

Badmouthing ex-girlfriends?

O ne woman was listening to a man talk about how all of his ex girlfriends were crazy, when she interjected to ask what he'd done to make them so angry.

'He 認める to me he 嫌疑者,容疑者/疑うd his girlfriend was cheating,' Reddit 使用者 Jenthrowaway4theday wrote, going on to 明らかにする/漏らす that he exacted 復讐 by having sex with her younger sister.?

It was the man's girlfriend's reaction that appeared to 納得させる him she was the crazy one, as she sent him angry texts and yelled at him when she 設立する out.

'First and last time I ever talked to that guy,' the woman wrote.

によれば sex 専門家 Tracey Cox the best way to 答える/応じる to questions about exes is: '無関心/冷淡 that's got a kindly 辛勝する/優位 to it.'

She 追加するs: 'Be ultra-aware of people who 非難する everything on their ex and take no 責任/義務 for their part in the 関係 failing.'?

One-upping you

On 使用者 didn't even get as far as 直面する-to-直面する after he showed his true colors soon enough over text.

'I met this guy on Tinder, we texted 支援する and 前へ/外へ for awhile,' she wrote. 'One evening i texted him telling him id had a rough day and felt really 負かす/撃墜する. To which he then 開始する,打ち上げるd into how his day was worse than 地雷 and whined intensely for half an hour. After which i never replied again.'

によれば psychotherapist Beatty Cohan, this is a 調印する of an emotional manipulator?and a 関係 with such a person will leave you feeling 無効にするd.?

Scandalous: One woman used tricky questioning to get a guy who was trying to chat her u
p to reveal he had slept with his ex-girlfriend's sister (stock image)

Scandalous: One woman used tricky 尋問 to get a guy who was trying to 雑談(する) her up to 明らかにする/漏らす he had slept with his ex-girlfriend's sister (在庫/株 image)

Asking to 跡をつける your movements?

Another was a 犠牲者 of her now-ex-boyfriend's past, as she 明らかにする/漏らすd her partner had 需要・要求するd she 任命する/導入するd a GPS program の上に her 動きやすい phone so he could keep 跡をつける of her.?

'He flipped when I told him "nope", argued that his last girlfriend did it and that's how he caught her cheating, so it was a "調印する of 信用". I got the f*** out of there すぐに,' 使用者 Undonehair wrote.?

Phones were a ありふれた source of red 旗s, with a number of replies 明言する/公表するing 類似の things had happened to them.

Getting too clingy too 急速な/放蕩な?

Another 使用者, erin_rabbit, 述べるd how one man she 時代遅れの just couldn't take things slow, 説 how he 'kept 説 how he loves to cuddle and "when can we cuddle?"

'I told him that was way too 急速な/放蕩な and that i 手配中の,お尋ね者 to put a pin in that until we knew each other better. He agreed but then he kept. Bringing. It. Up. Finally I stopped things because his pushiness and neediness was maki ng me uncomfortable.'?

Tracey explains that 急速な/放蕩な-跡をつけるing 関係s is a 抱擁する turn-off for both sexes, 'making even the most attractive person seem desperate and clingy.'?

Watching you: Another woman ended her relationship when her new boyfriend demanded to install a tracking device in her phone

Watching you: Another woman ended her 関係 when her new boyfriend 需要・要求するd to 任命する/導入する a 跡をつけるing 装置 in her phone

Snooping 二塁打 基準s?

One woman said there was a simple way to 選ぶ up on a bad partner, and it (機の)カム 負かす/撃墜する to their 姿勢 on phone 株ing.?

She said the man was going to be a dud: 'If he wants to go through your phone but won't let you go through his phone'.

存在 rude to servers?

Reddit 使用者 Abaiyachi brought some 下落する advice to the (米)棚上げする/(英)提議する as to how to choose a 見込みのある partner.?

'Never date a nyone who can't even 召喚する up the decency to be polite to a server, cashier, or other 顧客 service 労働者,' they wrote.

'That'll be you once the honeymoon period is over.'

Tracey?says that a man who isn't polite to his waiter is likely ' arrogant or has self-esteem 問題/発行するs and needs to 選ぶ on people who aren’t supposed to answer 支援する to make himself feel better.'?

Fostering 不信 with those の近くに to you?

On woman, 令状ing under the 扱う tryallthescience, 述べるd how she once had a 重要な other who was one day '事実上の/代理 really upset, and when I asked him why he said it was because my mom told him a 嘘(をつく). I don't even remember what it was, but he was really upset that she lied to him. Said he didn't feel like he could 信用 her anymore.?

'Then a few weeks later he said the same thing about my sister. Then a month later it was my best friend. Once I realized that I was pulling away from everyone in my life because if he couldn't 信用 them then I couldn't 信用 them, I had a 抱擁する oh s*** moment where I realized "Oh my god, he's about to start getting 肉体的に abusive." Got out of there so 急速な/放蕩な after that.'

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