'Should I be freaked out or flattered?' Woman finds out a '相互の friend' she's never met is 'really into' her and is visiting her city in an 試みる／企てる to 得点する／非難する／２０ a date with her
- A woman has opened up on 関心s over a man's approach to dating her?
- She says she's not really ever spoken to this man and he's a friend of a friend
- Part of the problem is the man seems 極端に keen to travel a distance to see her
- She wants to know should she she be flattered or worried by his enthusiasm?
A woman has 株d a 窮地 伴う／関わるing a man she says she hardly knows and who has 明らかにする／漏らすd he's 用意が出来ている to travel from another city ーするために date her.?
She explained the man was someone who was a 'friend of a friend from uni', and someone she'd only met once after buying an item from him online.
'We 港／避難所't even lived in the same city for about six years. We've never chatted on social マスコミ,' the woman told Stuff.
The woman said while there appeared to be no 明らかな 関係, the man recently told a friend 'he was into her' and that he planned to ask her for a date when visiting her city.?
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A woman has 明らかにする／漏らすd a dating 窮地 伴う／関わるing a man she says she only knows in the vaguest way (在庫／株 image)
Not 完全に put off by the man's enthusiasm, the woman relayed a message to the man 経由で her friend that she was open to the 申し込む／申し出 of a drink.?
Next, she said she was messaged by the man on Facebook who not only 宣言するd she 'was all 肉親，親類d of wonderful' but 明らかにする／漏らすd the 単独の 目的 of his visit was to 安全な・保証する a date with her.
While she felt the man's 利益／興味 felt 過度の, friends told her they'd 設立する his candour charming.
She 公式文書，認めるd others weren't so entralled,?特に her male mates, who told her his behaviour was 'mortifying'.
'Should I be freaked out or flattered?' she asked a New Zealand dating columnist,?Petra Quinn.
The columnist 保証するd from her 視野 it seemed the man was coming on too strong and this could 潜在的に be a problem.
'It sounds like until he messaged you recently the two of you hadn't spoken at all for a 十分な six years. In those circumstances, his preparedness to travel intercity for the 単独の 目的 of having a drink with you is nothing short of bizarre,' she said.
The man's enthusiasm when the pair spoke was a little too much for the woman who said he was coming on too strong too soon (在庫／株 image)
She advised the woman to take 注意する of her feelings and call off the date 権利 away. The exp ert also said she considered the man's behaviour a red 旗 and one she should 支払う／賃金 attention to.
To help, the columnist 示唆するd a 'straightforward but polite message' - one that 許すd the woman to say she felt a little uncomfortable about the visit and that she'd 再考するd her 決定／判定勝ち（する） to say yes.
'It may 井戸／弁護士席 be that you get a 傷つける-sounding 返答 支援する-pedalling on the whole "you're the 単独の 推論する／理由 for my visit" thing and trying to manipulate you into agreeing to the date once more. Don't bite.'??
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