MH370 親族s 見解（をとる） Indonesia 衝突，墜落 with empathy, and envy
BEIJING (AP) ― Images of 団体／死体s and 難破 floating in Indonesian waters gave 親族s of those lost 船内に AirAsia Flight 8501 anguish and grief, but they also 供給するd the answers that other families have sought in vain for nearly 10 months.
Those with loved ones 船内に Malaysia 航空機によるs Flight 370 can only imagine what has happened to them, and can only hope to one day know for sure.
"We have been living in 苦悩, 恐れる and hate, and our lives have been utterly messed up, but we as ordinary people are unable to do anything," said Dai Shuqin, whose sister was on the 行方不明の 計画（する） with her husband, daughter, son-in-法律 and grandchild.
In this Sunday, Dec. 28, 2014 photo, Dai Shuqin, whose sister was 船内に Malaysia 航空機によるs Flight 370 that went 行方不明の on March 8, 2014, weeps as she watches TV news about 行方不明の AirAsia Flight 8501, during a year-end 集会 with others at a house in Beijing, 中国. Images of 団体／死体s and 難破 floating in Indonesian waters gave 親族s of those lost 船内に AirAsia Flight 8501 anguish and grief, but they also 供給するd the answers that other families have sought in vain for nearly 10 months. ?We have been living in 苦悩, 恐れる and hate, and our lives have been utterly messed up, but we as ordinary people are unable to do anything,? said Dai. (AP Photo/Andy Wong)
What happened to MH370, which took off on March 8 from Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia, en 大勝する to Beijing, remains a mystery. The ジェット旅客機 disappeared after veering off course and 飛行機で行くing for hours with its communications systems 無能にするd. It is thought to have 衝突，墜落d about 1,800 キロメーターs (1,100 miles) off Australia's west coast, but no trace of the 航空機 or the 239 people 船内に ― most of whom were Chinese ― has been 設立する にもかかわらず an exhaustive and continuing search.
On 審理，公聴会 the news that the AirAsia 計画（する） had lost 接触する on Sunday morning, MH370 親族s said they すぐに sympathized with the families who were in the same position they were on March 8. "I can feel the coldness they are feeling now," said Jiang Hui, whose mother was on MH370.
Two days later, with 破片 spotted in the sea, it was already a different story. Some families of the Flight 370 犠牲者s felt a sort of envy.
Families of those on the AirAsia flight "are luckier than us, because they know what happened soon afterward," said Song Chunjie, whose sister was on the 計画（する） on her way 支援する from a photogra phy holiday. "Knowing the bad news is painful, but it's even more painful for us to live with 不確定 and have to wait to know what 現実に happened."
"They can find (Osama) 貯蔵所 Laden, he's just a 選び出す／独身 person," 追加するd the 50-year-old 実業家. "How can they not find such a big airplane? .... We must get the answers that can stop such a 悲劇 happening again in the 未来."
Since Flight 370 disappeared, 親族s of the 行方不明の have helped each other 耐える the 騒動 of not knowing. Many of them spent weeks together in a hotel in the northeast of Beijing where they waited for news of the flight.
They have (1)偽造する／(2)徐々に進むd new friendships, 需要・要求するd answers and 耐えるd some hassles from Chinese 当局, who are 用心深い of any 原因（となる） that may 誘発する／引き起こす social 不安定, even those that seem apolitical.
親族s say they have been under 正規の／正選手 police 監視, and that 16 of them were 拘留するd, with some beaten, in 中央の-July while at a support 中心.
Li said that when he went to Tiananmen Square with two other 親族s, they were held at a 安全 check for 40 minutes after 安全 officers 設立する a T-shirt with the phrase "Pray for MH370" in his 捕らえる、獲得する. They were sent on their way, but 追跡するd by a police officer.
親族s of 犠牲者s continue to 会合，会う each other in social settings, or in part of a sports 中心 that has been 始める，決める up to enable them to send questions to Malaysia 航空機によるs and the Chinese and Malaysian 政府s.
Traveling between home and this 中心 "is my daily life," said Dai, who said it was taking a 抱擁する emotional and 財政上の （死傷者）数 on her. "But as long as my health 許すs it, I will continue to do so and will never give up."
Groups of 親族s have small get-togethers to 雑談（する） with and 慰安 each other. On Sunday, Dai and some others met at Jiang's house in central Beijing to make dumplings, an activity overtaken by news of the AirAsia 計画（する）.
Dr. George Hu, a 臨床の psychologist at Beijing 部隊d Family Hospital and Clinics, said the 親族s of the MH370 乗客s are experiencing a psychological 現象 that parents of children who are kidnapped also go through.
"Worse than grief is the not knowing, the in-between, do I grieve or do I hope. That's hard," he said. "It's a very difficult place for the psyche to be and many people would say it's worse than grief."
大統領 Xi Jinping said Wednesday that the 行方不明の 乗客s have not been forgotten.
"This year we also experienced some sad moments," he said slowly and somberly in his New Year's speech. "MH370 went 行方不明の and more than 150 compatriots are still 原因不明の／行方不明の（unaccounnted-for） for. We 港／避難所't forgotten them and we must continue our 成果／努力s and try every means to find them."
The 乗客s' 親族s wonder when ― or if ― their agonizing waiting game will end.
"If there's no 結論, you think there's still hope," said one of them, Steve Wang, who said he has carried on working as normal so other people don't worry about him.
"Maybe the mystery will never be solved," he 追加するd. "Maybe it will take a very, very long time: 3 years, 5 years, 10 years or 20 years. Anything's possible."
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Associated 圧力（をかける） 研究員 Yu Bing and news assistant Zhao Liang in Beijing, and writer Eileen Ng in Surabaya, Indonesia, 与える／捧げるd to this 報告（する）／憶測.
In this Wednesday, Dec. 31, 2014 photo, Song Chunjie, whose sister was 船内に Malaysia 航空機によるs Flight 370 that went 行方不明の on March 8, 2014, speaks about his sister during an interview at a teahouse in Beijing, 中国. Images of 団体／死体s and 難破 floating in Indonesian waters gave 親族s of those lost 船内に AirAsia Flight 8501 anguish and grief, but they also 供給するd the answers that other families have sought in vain for nearly 10 months. ?The 親族s of those other two flights are luckier than us, because they know what happened soon afterward,? said Song, whose sister was on her way 支援する from a photography holiday. ?Knowing the bad news is painful, but it?s even more painful for us to live with 不確定 and have to wait to know what 現実に happened.? (AP Photo/Andy Wong)
In this Sunday, Dec. 28, 2014 photo, 親族s of 乗客s 船内に Malaysia 航空機によるs Flight 370 that went 行方不明の on March 8, 2014 make dumplings during their year-end 集会 at a house in Beijing, 中国. Images of 団体／死体s and 難破 floating in Indonesian waters gave 親族s of those lost 船内に AirAsia Flight 8501 anguish and grief, but they also 供給するd the answers that other families have sought in vain for nearly 10 months. Those with loved ones 船内に Malaysia 航空機によるs Flight 370 can only imagine what has happened to them, and can only hope to one day know for sure. (AP Photo/Andy Wong)
In this Wednesday, Dec. 31, 2014 photo, Song Chunjie, whose sister was 船内に Malaysia 航空機によるs Flight 370 that went 行方不明の on March 8, 2014, wipes his 涙／ほころびs as he speaks about his sister during an interview at a teahouse in Beijing, 中国. Images of 団体／死体s and 難破 floating in Indonesian waters gave 親族s of those lost 船内に AirAsia Flight 8501 anguish and grief, but they also 供給するd the answers that other families have sought in vain for nearly 10 months. ?The 親族s of those other two flights are luckier than us, because they know what happened soon afterward,? said Song, whose sister was on her way 支援する from a photography holiday. ?Knowing the bad news is painful, but it?s even more painful for us to live with 不確定 and have to wait to know what 現実に happened.? (AP Photo/Andy Wong)
In this Sunday, Dec. 28, 2014 photo, Dai Shuqin, second from 権利, whose sister was 船内に Malaysia 航空機によるs Flight 370 that went 行方不明の on March 8, 2014, 雑談（する）s with other 親族s during their year-end 集会 at a house in Beijing, 中国. Images of 団体／死体s and 難破 floating in Indonesian waters gave 親族s of those lost 船内に AirAsia Flight 8501 anguish and grief, but they also 供給するd the answers that other families have sought in vain for nearly 10 months. ?We have been living in 苦悩, 恐れる and hate, and our lives have been utterly messed up, but we as ordinary people are unable to do anything,? said Dai. (AP Photo/Andy Wong)
