A mom has 誘発するd 猛烈な／残忍な fury after she 明らかにする／漏らすd that she asked guests coming to her daughter's first birthday party to bring $5 出資／貢献s to her backyard 革新s instead of a gift for her child.
Rachel Gibbs, from Houston, Texas, left many people on the web 乱暴／暴力を加えるd after she spoke out about the 'unusual things' that she was planning for her daughter, Hazel's one-year-old birthday 祝賀 on TikTok?last month.
She 明らかにする／漏らすd that she didn't want to spend any money on the party, which meant she would not be serving a meal or cake, and had no 計画（する）s to buy decorations or 供給する any games for the party-goers to play.
She also said that she 教えるd guests on the 招待s to not bring toys or 着せる／賦与するs for the birthday girl, but in leu of 現在のs, she asked for 寄付s toward her lawn work - and her admissions did not go over 井戸／弁護士席 with social マスコミ 使用者s.
A mom has 誘発するd 猛烈な／残忍な fury after she 明らかにする／漏らすd that she asked guests coming to her daughter's first birthday party to bring $5 出資／貢献s to her backyard 革新s
Rachel Gibbs, from Houston, Texas , left many people on the web 乱暴／暴力を加えるd after she spoke out about the 'unusual things' that she was planning for her daughter, Hazel's birthday 祝賀
She 明らかにする／漏らすd that she didn't want to spend any money on the party, which meant she would not be serving a meal or cake, and had no 計画（する）s to buy decorations or 供給する any games
She also said that she 教えるd guests on the 招待s to not bring toys or 着せる／賦与するs for the birthday girl, but in leu of 現在のs, she asked for 寄付s toward her lawn work - and her admissions did not go over 井戸／弁護士席 with social マスコミ 使用者s
'This is a 名簿（に載せる）／表（にあげる） of things I'm doing for my daughter's first birthday party that are just a little bit not normal,' Rachel began in the now-viral ビデオ, which has been 見解（をとる）d more than 622,000 times.
'I 特に put on the 招待s, "Please do not bring gifts,"' 株d the mother-of-two.
'Homegirl needs nothing. If you feel inclined to bring something, consider $5 because we're trying to remodel our backyard.?
'Our backyard is a train 難破させる. Bring us $5 to help us redo our yard - that's what we're asking for.?
'She does not need anything. Also, I am very picky so I don't want you to buy s**t for my kids.'
During the ビデオ, Rachel said?she didn't want to fork out any money on a party that her daughter 'wouldn't remember.'
She said that meant she had no 計画（する）s to give guests food or alcohol, except for maybe a few 軽食s.
'Please eat before you come, there will be some 軽食s and that's it,' she 株d. 'And?I'm not doing games. I'm not doing anything really.?
TikTok 使用者s certainly had thoughts about Rachel's party 計画（する）s, and the 地位，任命する was quickly flooded with a slew of 消極的な 返答s
'This is gonna be a very '90s vibe party, where I have a ball 炭坑，オーケストラ席 out and maybe some toys. I'll put the Pikler Triangle and the trampoline up outside and that'll be that.
'I am not spending money on this. I'm just not. I spent money to get the 招待s printed and that's it. It's not going to be expensive.'
Rachel also said that she scheduled the party for?9:30 in the morning, and 追加するd that she made it （疑いを）晴らす on the 招待するs that it will only be an hour-and-a-half long - and that guests need to leave すぐに after it ends.?
'I?literally put 9:30am to 11am on the 招待. I want you all to know I don't want you at my house all day,' she 明言する／公表するd.
'Anyone coming to a one-year-old's birthday party is already up at 9:00am or they can suck it up for one day because it's over at 11 and you still have your entire day.
'I don't 推定する／予想する you to sacrifice your entire Saturday for a child's birthday party, she's not even gonna remember it.?And at the end time, please leave my house. My child needs to nap.'
TikTok 使用者s certainly had thoughts about Rachel's party 計画（する）s, and?the 地位，任命する was quickly flooded with a slew of 消極的な 返答s.
' Tacky to ask for $5 to go に向かって your home,' one person slammed. 'If it's a child's birthday, money should go に向かって something your child needs.'
'It's giving narcissism,' replied someone else. A third 使用者 追加するd, 'This is insane. Why not just 取り消す it and do a GoFundMe for your backyard. Sounds like the worst "party" ever.'
'I don’t get the point to have the party. No gifts, no games, no food, no CAKE. Sounds like a work 会合,' read a fourth comment.
A different 使用者 said, 'This is terrible I’m sorry. I hope no one shows.'
'How the hell do you ask your guests to get up at 8 am to …に出席する a birthday party and not 料金d them?' asked another person.
'So you want your guests to get up extra 早期に on a Saturday morning and you’re not even going to 料金d them. Just say you're cheap,' replied someone else.
In a follow-up, Rachel 答える／応じるd to some of her haters and defended her 決定／判定勝ち（する） to ask for money に向かって their yard 革新s.
In a follow-up, Rachel?公約するd the money would 結局 go に向かって her daughter, explaining,?'We want to redo our backyard so our kids can play in it'
'She's not gonna care or re member that she didn't get 現在のs at her first birthday party,' she 明言する／公表するd.
'We give stuff away 週刊誌. We have so much stuff we don't need anymore.?I didn't want to put "no gifts" because then people still feel obligated to bring a gift, so that's why I was like, "If you feel inclined to bring something, $5." That's why I put that.'
She 追加するd that she's been trying to '焦点（を合わせる） on intentional spending' recently, and didn't think it was 権利 to fork out 'hundreds of dollars' on decorations that will be just be thrown away after the party.
'I will use what we have, I will print stuff and be resourceful. It's not gonna be lame,' she 主張するd.
'But I'm not gonna spend $3,000 on a first birthday party. I'm not gonna rent out a 発生地.
'I'm not gonna do all of these things. We really just want people who love her here. We just want to be together.
'I don't know what point in time parties became about the people that were 招待するd - it's the same with wedding culture.?
'People will be like, "If you don't let me bring my kid then I'm not coming." 承認する then don't come it's not about you.?
'It's a birthday party for a one-year-old. No one's 卒業生（する）ing from 医療の school it doesn't need to be a whole thing.'
In a third ビデオ, she said that 'asking for $5 at a kids' birthday wasn't a new thing,' and 公約するd the money would 結局 go に向かって her daughter.
'We want to redo our backyard so our kids can play in it,' she 追加するd. 'We want to get this 広大な／多数の／重要な playground and it's going to take some work.'
But her follow-up 地位，任命するs were only flooded with more 汚い comments.?
Afterwards, Rachel 地位，任命するd a tearful clip of herself 明らかにする／漏らすing that she wou ld be stepping away from the ビデオ streaming 壇・綱領・公約 まっただ中に the 巨大な （激しい）反発.
'Hey so I'm gonna be taking a little bit of a break from TikTok because that ビデオ I 地位，任命するd about Hazel's birthday party, people do not like it,' she said as she broke 負かす／撃墜する in 涙／ほころびs.
'People are not happy ... 明らかに I'm the s**ttiest mom on the 惑星 for that. 明らかに I don't love Hazel because of that.'
Rachel 追加するd that she had been 'sobbing' for a while over the comments.?
'Y'all, I'm a f**king person. Content creators read their comments. If you see something you don't like, 封鎖する that creator,' she 結論するd.
But her 地位，任命する was only flooded with more 汚い comments. Afterwards, Rachel 地位，任命するd a tearful clip of herself 明らかにする／漏らすing that she would be stepping away from the ビデオ streaming 壇・綱領・公約
Rachel told People?that 'there's no "権利" way to do anything when it comes to parenting,' and said so many parents feel like 'you have to go all out' for things that really aren't necessary
Rachel spoke about the internet's 厳しい reaction to her ビデオ with People magazine recently, and she その上の defended her 決定／判定勝ち（する）s.
She said the party went 井戸／弁護士席, and that the 早期に start time meant 'all of the kids were so pleasant' and 'no naps were 行方不明になるd.'
She 追加するd that she ended up serving coffee, juice, soda, milk, donuts and?breakfast tacos.
While 反映するing on the hate, she said she was 'surprised' by people who branded her as 'cheap' for her admissions.
'I'm a 十分な time content creator, so I'm used to people always having an opinion,' she explained.?
'But the "cheap" comments surprised me. We 手配中の，お尋ね者 to have a party for our daughter but didn't want to spend トンs of money.?
'We also didn't want to obligate our friends into spending unnecessary money on toys, 調書をとる／予約するs, 着せる／賦与するs or 会員の地位s ... because our kids have everything they could ever need (they both have 529s too!).
'I practice what I preach and I wear my heart on my shoulder, so when the 'wrong 味方する' of TikTok gets ahold of a ビデオ, the attacks can be personal. Thankfully, I'm very 井戸／弁護士席 熟知させるd with the 封鎖する button.'?
She 追加するd that 'there's no "権利" way to do anything when it comes to parenting,' and said she 手配中の，お尋ね者 to be honest since so many parents feel like 'you have to go all out' for things that really aren't necessary.
'It's （疑いを）晴らす to me that there's a 激しい 負担 on parents' shoulders to "get it 権利" because everything is 文書d now,' she said.
'There's no 支配する 調書をとる／予約する, and at some point, 非，不，無 of us have ever done this before. Even a mom of six is a first-time mom to that oldest child.'
