Educator 答える／応じるs to the 団体／死体-shaming of an eight-year-old girl by telling her mother to love her as she is and 'talk about anything but 団体／死体s'

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More than a 団体／死体:?When Kara Waite heard that her friend's eight-year-old daughter was 存在 団体／死体 shamed at school by her peers and teachers she was heartbroken and decided to tell the child that she is loveable just the way she is and that she is more than just her 団体／死体?

Facebook 地位，任命する:?'Today I had a long talk with a friend about her little g irl. The child is overweight and, not only are children at school teasing her, but her doctor and teacher are making cruel comments about the girl in 前線 of her,' wrote Waite on November 4

'But that doesn't change the strong 可能性 that, somewhere, there's a little girl 存在 made to feel bad about her 団体／死体, and that's bad. But what's worse is that, 存在 女性（の） in this culture, that 団体／死体 isn't just her 団体／死体, it's herself, 'she wrote.

Waite said that telling the girl she is overweight won’t do anything to make her skinnier, rather it will make her loathe her self-image and make her feel as though she isn't good enough.

'What the doctor says: you need to move more, you need to eat いっそう少なく, you're a smart girl, this is simple math. What that little girl hears: you are lazy, you aren't smart enough to make your 団体／死体 the way it should be, there is something wrong with your 団体／死体.?

'What the kids say: ew, you're so fat. What that little girl hears: we don't like you, 存在 liked is for other people, not you. What the teacher says: you don't need another piece of candy. What that little girl hears: you are not 許すd to have a thing that you enjoy, enjoying things is for other people, not for you,' wrote Waite in her Facebook 地位，任命する.

Waite, who is 現在／一般に working on a memoir about trying to love her 団体／死体 called Weightless, says she, like that eight-year-old girl, has struggled with her 団体／死体 image as long as she could remember.

'I'll tell you what might happen because I know: years of yo-yo dieting, disordered eating, 団体／死体 dysmorphia, and, very likely, a metabolism fucked beyond all 承認 such that her 団体／死体 持つ／拘留するs の上に every calorie. A constant cycle of 制限するing and permitting. An obsession with food, thighs, cellulite, rolls, curves, lard, blah blah. Insecurity. 騒動. A waste of time, money, energy, and happiness,' Waite continued in the Facebook 地位，任命する 詳細（に述べる）ing her struggle.

Long 戦う／戦い:?Waite, who is 現在／一般に working on a memoir about trying to love her 団体／死体, called Weightless, says she, like that eight-year-old girl, has struggled with her 団体／死体 image as long as she could remember

When her friend asked her what she could do not to make her 'daughter feel bad,' she said: 'Take her outside. 工場／植物 a garden. Play in the snow. Play tag. Get a slip and slide and swing 始める，決める and a hoolah hoop. Buy her a purple bike with 有望な yellow streamers. Teach her to play an 器具 and dance like a crazy person. Buy her art 供給（する）s and show her all of the 団体／死体s that artists have celebrated throughout history. 料金d her good stuff, but have conversations with her while she eats it. Say things that aren't about food.'

Waite said that the mother's commentary about her own 団体／死体 is 影響力のある to her daughter and could make her insecure にもかかわらず it not 存在 directed at h er.

'Talk about anything but 団体／死体s,' Waite said, 追加するing that she could also explain how everyone has insecurities and いつかs those insecurities make people cruel.

'Tell her that the people who 非難する her 団体／死体 have problems with their own 団体／死体s, or, worse, with their hearts and minds. If she needs a bigger size, buy it, but shut the hell up about it,' she said.

Love her 正確に／まさに as she is. 受託する her 正確に／まさに as she is. Like her, too, and let her know it. Fill her up with love and like and 受託 so she doesn't learn to get it from cookies and Doritos and sundaes and pizza.Love her 正確に／まさに as she is. 受託する her 正確に／まさに as she is. Like her, too, and let her know it,' Waite 結論するd.

Fil l her up with love: 受託する her 正確に／まさに as she is. Like her, too, and let her know it. Fill her up with love and like and 受託 so she doesn't learn to get it from cookies and Doritos and sundaes and pizza.Love her 正確に／まさに as she is

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