Grieving father's agony as 尊敬の印s to his stillborn daughter are '捨てるd in a 貯蔵所' because only flowers are 許すd by graveyard bosses

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A grieving father has spoken of his agony after graveyard bosses threw 尊敬の印s for his stillborn daughter into a 貯蔵所.?

物陰／風下 James and his ten-year-old daughter went to the 墓／厳粛／彫る／重大な of Daisie-May - whose heartbeat stopped in 2014 when Mr James's wife, Sarah, was seven months 妊娠している, and 設立する 貯蔵所s 十分な of 尊敬の印s to her and other children.?

The parents, who live in Sapcote,?Leicestershire, with their six other children, had left flowers and coloured love-heart pebbles by Daisie-May's 墓／厳粛／彫る／重大な, in?Leicester's Gilroes 共同墓地, to make it more personal.?

物陰／風下 James's daughter, Daisie May, was stillborn in 2014 and buried in Leicester. Mr James and his ten-year-old daughter 設立する 尊敬の印s to Daisie-May and other children in 貯蔵所s at the 共同墓地

Mr James said: 'To my horror the 貯蔵所s were 十分な.

'We couldn't find our 所持品 and to make it worse people had put general rubbish on 最高の，を越す.

'We 設立する teddies from other babies' 墓／厳粛／彫る／重大なs - it's just awful.'

Mr James said the biggest 衝撃 has been on his wife who now doesn't want to go 支援する to the 共同墓地.?

He said: 'My 10-year-old who helped me look through the 貯蔵所s, loved her baby sister even though she never met her, but she shouldn't have to do that.?

'No child should.

'It's had the biggest 衝撃 on my wife because she doesn't want to go 支援する there now.'

Mr James said: 'To my horror the 貯蔵所s were 十分な.?We 設立する teddies from other babies' 墓／厳粛／彫る／重大なs - it's just awful'

Leicester City 会議 明言する／公表するs in the 使用／適用 for a 墓／厳粛／彫る／重大な in this part of Gilroes 共同墓地 that no 尊敬の印s other than flowers are to be left, but a few years ago the 支配する was relaxed.?

Mr James said he was not told that a review into the relaxed 支配する was taking place and was not told he could 除去する his 尊敬の印s before they were taken away.?

He said: 'A 儀礼訪問 would have been good but we didn't know anything about it.'?

The review ended with a 決定／判定勝ち（する） to 除去する flowers and other 尊敬の印s left by 墓／厳粛／彫る／重大なs and the 会議 said they would be 蓄える／店d in コンテナs at the 共同墓地.?

Mr James believes these コンテナs were 貯蔵所s.?

The 会議 says it has a 義務 to 持続する the upkeep of communal areas 'to 尊敬（する）・点 all of the families who use it'.

Mr and Mrs James, who live in Sapcote, Leicestershire, with their six other children, had left flowers and coloured love-heart pebbles by Daisie-May's 墓／厳粛／彫る／重大な, in Leicester's Gilroes 共同墓地, to make it more personal

Daisie-May's 墓／厳粛／彫る／重大な has been the same since the day she was buried and Mr James feels as though the sudden change has shown a d eep disrespect for other grieving families who have children in the 共同墓地.?

He said: 'Someone in high 当局 has made this 決定／判定勝ち（する）.

'It's very insensitive and they don't realise what they have done.

'In May it will be five years since we lost Daisie and her 墓／厳粛／彫る／重大な has been the same since the day she was buried.

'For the last five years it has been somewhere we can go to be の近くに to her so it just makes you so 十分な of 怒り／怒る that this has been done.

'The way the 会議 has gone about it is just disgusting.

'It makes it seem like the babies are unloved, but they belong to somebody.

'They're still little babies and it's just total 無視（する）.

He 追加するd:?'I would really like to sit the person who made this 決定／判定勝ち（する） 負かす／撃墜する in 前線 of me and explain to them what it has done to people.

'I want them to realise the 衝撃 it has had.'?

A Leicester City 会議 spokesperson said: 'Items 除去するd from the 株d 墓／厳粛／彫る／重大なs are placed together in 事例／患者 people want to collect them, but we must 強調する／ストレス that these are often in poor 条件, and it appears that other people have been 追加するing discarded items from other areas of the 共同墓地.

'We are sorry for any 苦しめる 原因（となる）d by this and we will look at ways that we can 改善する 貯蔵 of these items, but we have to 持続する the communal area to 尊敬（する）・点 all of the families who use it.'

A Leicester City 会議 spokesperson said: 'We 高く評価する／（相場などが）上がる that people want to leave mementos for their loved ones, but we have to consider the 異なるing 見解（をとる）s of all （死が）奪い去るd families'

The spokesperson 追加するd: 'In this section of the 共同墓地, which is 始める，決める aside for hospital-arranged funerals, we try our best to keep the communal 墓／厳粛／彫る／重大なs clean and tidy so that all the （死が）奪い去るd families who 株 the space can 支払う／賃金 their 尊敬（する）・点s.

'Although we ask that people only leave unwrapped fresh flowers on these 株d 墓／厳粛／彫る／重大なs, we relaxed the 支配するs some years ago so that people could also leave small teddy 耐えるs in the area, if they so wished.

'Unfortunately, however, this isn't working. Soft toys that aren't designed to be left outdoors in all 天候s 速く 悪化する and quickly become unsightly.

'We 高く評価する／（相場などが）上がる that people want to leave mementos for their loved ones, but we have to consider the 異なるing 見解（をとる）s of all （死が）奪い去るd families.'