'I hope you can be with mum and Alastair now': Son's heartbreaking message to father who died in a car 事故 six months after his mother killed herself to be with his brother who had taken his life months earlier

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A distraught son who lost his father, mother and brother in just one year has 荷を降ろすd his raw grief in a heartbreaking message to his dead loved ones.

Andrew Done's horrific ordeal began in January when his younger brother Alastair, 26, washed up on an Aberdeen beach after taking his own life.

The 29-year-old was struck by a second family when his mother 約束, 55, hanged herself five months later after speaking of her wish to be '再会させるd' with her dead son.?

And in a cruel 新たな展開, Andrew's father Nick was killed in a horror car 事故 just last month.

After his father's death, the bodybuilder from Staffordshire wrote: 'Words can't 述べる the way I feel 権利 know, my heart is broken my world has been ripped from me.?

'I love you Dad and I really hope there is a heaven where you can be with mum and Alastair.'?

Andrew Done (left), 29, from Staffordshire, with his father Nick who died in a car 事故 last month

Struggling to 対処する with the loss of her son Alastair, mother 約束 Done, 55, (pictured with Andrew) hanged herself five months later to be '再会させるd' with him

約束 Done, 55, (left) took her own life after she was left heartbroken by the 自殺 of her son Alastair, 26, (権利) who killed himself at a seaside beauty 位置／汚点／見つけ出す, an 検死 heard

Andrew?has 荷を降ろすd his raw grief in a heartbreaking message to his dead loved ones

The Done family 悲劇s begun on January 4 this year when Alastair, who had a history of self-害（を与える）, took off after buying a one-way rail ticket to the Scottish coast.

The polo yards 労働者 sent his mother a 冷気／寒がらせるing text message 説: 'I'm gone, no-one 接触する me', 誘発するing a major police search.?

On January 20, his 団体／死体 was 設立する washed up on Balmedie Beach in Aberdeen after his rucksack was つまずくd upon in the sand.

At the time of Alastair's death, Ms Done, a horse trainer from Cheshire, was 記録，記録的な／記録するd 説: 'He was 有望な enough to know what he was doing but 明白に we are all 荒廃させるd.

'Alastair always loved his horses and working with his brother. He also went to Ireland and worked in some fantastic polo yards 同様に as doing 井戸／弁護士席 in the showing world. He didn't know how loved he was by all his horsey friends.'

The loss of her son saw Ms Done turn to alcohol as grief spiralled her life to a point where she was 熟視する／熟考するing 自殺.??

Nick's 声明 given to the police before he died, which was read out at his wife's Warrington 検死 yesterday, 詳細（に述べる）d Ms Done's slide into 不景気.

The 農業者's labourer said: '約束 had always drank alcohol but when Alastair died she started drinking a lot more.

Nick Done died in a car 衝突，墜落 last month, after his son Alastair and wife 約束 both committed 自殺

Mrs Done, who organised horse shows and trained animals at her stables in Malpas, Cheshire was 設立する dead in her hallway by her husband Nick as he returned home from work

'Before he passed away she was 普通は a happy person his death 攻撃する，衝突する us all hard 特に 約束.

'She について言及するd on 非常に／多数の occasions that she was going to hang herself but I never believed she would.?

'She 辞退するd all help and 明言する／公表するd she didn't need it and put on a 勇敢に立ち向かう 直面する.'?

'The month before she passed away we had a conversation about taking a lot of pills and going to sleep together 予定 to Alastair taking his own life and she said she 手配中の，お尋ね者 to be with him.?

'I didn't see much of her in the week 主要な up to her death as she was out most nights but when I did she seemed very low and 静かな, and she didn't speak much to me.

He also 述べるd the lead-up to Ms Done's devestating 自殺, 含むing the moment he walked through the 前線 door and saw her dead.?

Nick 追加するd: '事前の to leaving the house for work I checked up on 約束 a nd she was in bed with some of her 長，率いる hanging off it. I tucked her in and made sure she was comfortable. I left the house and returned to the home 演説（する）／住所 at だいたい 7.30pm.

Before her death, 約束 Done (pictured) told her husband Nick they should take an overdose of pills together to be '再会させるd' with Alastair

'I hadn't heard from 約束 all day but that was やめる normal for us. Then I walked in through the 前線 door and then that's when I saw 約束 had passed away.'

In a 声明 mental health nurse Christina Bromfield, said: '約束 was seen in February 17 and whilst she had been 消費するing alcohol, she didn't consider this as having a detrimental 影響 upon her.?

'She 否定するd experiencing problems of mental health although she 述べるd how she had lost her son who had taken his own life.

'She was feeling numb and had not started to come to 条件 with this - but she 否定するd any 計画（する）s or 意図 to 害（を与える） herself.?

'She was 申し込む／申し出d a referral to her GP but 拒絶する／低下するd this 申し込む／申し出 although she did 受託する support （警察などへの）密告，告訴（状） about bereavement from a 自殺 support group.'

A 報告（する）／憶測 by Mrs Done's GP, Dr Nick Dixon said: 'Mrs Done didn't …に出席する very often and only met her in person on October 2010.?

'I did have 接触する with her by telephone on May 13, 2019 explained she would like to 調書をとる／予約する an 任命 with me as she had not been 対処するing 井戸／弁護士席 and drinking alcohol ひどく.

'Mrs Done told me her son had 以前 committed 自殺 and she felt she had not been 取引，協定ing with this 井戸／弁護士席. She kept thinking about her sons funeral and the song played during the service.?

'I 申し込む／申し出d her an 任命 the same afternoon but she advised me she had to muck out the cows as she was keeping busy and several people where relying on her.

Alastair Done (pictured as a child) was a professional horseman.?His 団体／死体 was 設立する washed up on Balmedie Beach in Aberdeen on January 20 after his 所持品 含むing his rucksack were 設立する in the sand

'I 申し込む／申し出d an 任命 the に引き続いて day with someone else but she preferred to see me on May 15.?

'The 任命 was 調書をとる／予約するd but Mrs Done cancelled the 任命 and sadly I was made aware of her death on May 24, 2019.'

Det Sgt Simon Owen of Cheshire Police said: 'There were 非常に／多数の 所有／入手s laid on her bed and 公式文書，認めるs 説 着せる／賦与するs for everyone and an envelope on the bed for Andrew and Robert.?

'In the ground 床に打ち倒す room were several personal papers laid out on the 味方する, personal 影響s had been put in order and a card 演説（する）／住所d to Nick and Andrew.'

記録，記録的な／記録するing a 結論 of 自殺 検死官 ヒース／荒れ地 Westerman, said: '約束 Done was a horse show 生産者 and the 結論 in the circumstances is one of 自殺. I 延長する my sincere 弔慰s to her remaining family and friends.'

Last month an 検死 opened into the death of Nick, who died 即時に when his BMW 小型の 衝突する／食い違うd 長，率いる-on with a Volkswagen Caddy on the A525 Whitchurch Road in Bangor-on-Dee at 5am on October 2.?

Another person was 本気で 負傷させるd after both 乗り物s caught 解雇する／砲火／射撃 on 衝撃.?

For confidential support call the Samaritans on 116123 or visit a 地元の Samaritans 支店, see www.samaritans.org for 詳細（に述べる）s.??