Nicole Kidman's hidden heartbreak: Actress 主張するs she has '無条件の love for Bella, 31, and Connor, 29, who she 可決する・採択するd with Tom 巡航する - after they remained 'loyal to their father' in the 離婚 and were raised as Scientologists

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As Nicole Kidman proudly appeared on the red carpet with her husband Keith 都市の and their grown-up daughters Sunday Rose and 約束 Margaret when she was given a lifetime 業績／成就 award, two of her family members were 顕著に not 現在の.

Connor and Isabella 巡航する, 29 and 31 それぞれ, are Nicole's children from her first marriage to Hollywood 巨人 Tom 巡航する. But as Kidman 受託するd the gong from the American Film 学校／設ける at the Dolby Theatre in Hollywood on Saturday and paid 尊敬の印 to the 'loves of her life'; her husband and daughters, Connor and Isabella were not について言及するd.

When 巡航する and Nicole?離婚d in 2001 に引き続いて an 11-year marriage, 共同の 保護／拘留 of the children was given to the parents. However, behind の近くにd doors, the 可決する・採択するd children 報道によれば remained 'loyal to their father' and decided to live with him, meaning they were raised in the 議論の的になる church of Scientology.

Nicole, now 56, hasn't been pictured 公然と with her eldest two children since 2007, and she was 報道によれば left '荒廃させるd' after the pair didn't …に出席する her father's funeral in 2014.

It had also been 報告（する）／憶測d she was eager for Connor and Bella to …に出席する the 儀式 this 週末 as she received America's highest honour for a career in film.

As Nicole Kidman received an American Film 学校／設ける Lifetime 業績／成就 Award this 週末, she appeared on the red carpet with the daughters she 株 with Keith 都市の, Sunday Rose, 15, and 約束 Margaret, 13

While Connor, who is believed to be '極端に loyal to his dad' Tom, 61, didn't appear to show Nicole any public support for her 業績／成就, daughter Bella liked one of her mother's Instagram 地位，任命するs about the award.

De spite a 報告（する）／憶測d 不和 between Nicole and her eldest children - something Connor and Bella 否定する - the actress has 以前 spoken of her '無条件の' love for Connor and Bella, in light of their 'choices to be Scientologists'.

The A-名簿（に載せる）／表（にあげる） couple 可決する・採択するd Connor and Isabella in the 早期に 1990s after Nicole 苦しむd an ectopic pregnancy and a miscarriage - and was told as a result she might find it hard to conceive.

She 以前 opened up in an interview with Tatler?about her fertility 問題／発行するs with 巡航する, and how she felt a 'yearning' for children.

Bella Kidman 巡航する, 31, is now based in London. She 'liked' a 地位，任命する celebrating her mother's accolade on Instagram

Nicole Kidman and Tom 巡航する 可決する・採択するd Connor and Isabella in the 早期に 1990s after Nicole 苦しむd from an ectopic pregnancy and a miscarriage?

'The loss of a miscarriage is not talked about enough. That's 大規模な grief to 確かな women,' she said.?

She did not 演説（する）／住所 her 関係 with her 可決する・採択するd children in the interview - however Nicole did speak about the motherly instinct; whether one's children are 生物学の or 可決する・採択するd.

She said: 'Whether you’re an adoptive mother, whether you’re a foster mother, whether you’re a 生物学の mother ? it’s the emotion of 大（公）使館員ing to a child and helping to guide them and 後部 them [that is important].'

It has been 示唆するd that the church of Scientology may be the 推論する／理由 for the distance between Nicole and her older children.

In her 調書をとる／予約する Troublemaker: 生き残るing Hollywood and Scientology, ex-Scientology member Leah Remini （人命などを）奪う，主張するd that Nicole was labelled a 'suppressive person' or 'SP' by the church after leaving.

After the Hollywood couple 離婚d in 2001, the children were said to have been 'loyal to their father' and chose to live with him

Ron Miscavige,?the father of Scientology leader David, who himself 放棄するd the 宗教, 以前 told DailyMail.com that there is a '有毒な' 政策 of 'disconnection' operating within the church.

Speaking to the website in 2016, five years before he passed away, Ron (who was estranged from David) explained that the disconnection 政策 sees Scientologists 削減（する） off 接触する with any family member who leaves the church. He （人命などを）奪う，主張するd it happened to him, not only with son David, but also with his two daughters, Denise and Lori.?

A year earlier, a 議論の的になる 文書の?Going （疑いを）晴らす: Scientology and the 刑務所，拘置所 of Belief made （人命などを）奪う，主張するs about the church in interviews with former members who have since left.

One of the 主張s made in the film was that Scientologists conspired to '容易にする the break up' of Tom 巡航する's second marriage to Nicole Kidman because the 長，率いる of the church, David Miscavige, was 怪しげな of her.

Kidman was 名簿（に載せる）／表（にあげる）d as a '可能性のある Trouble Source' because her father was a psychologist in Australia, によれば the Daily Beast.

Gibney's film （人命などを）奪う，主張するs that Kidman, who was raised カトリック教徒, 納得させるd 巡航する to distance himself from the Church of Scientology between 1992 and 2001.

It also 主張するs that during the filming of Stanley Kubrick's 注目する，もくろむs Wide Shut, 巡航する wasn't returning Miscavige's phone calls, even though he was the best man at the actor's wedding.

Marty Rathbun, a former 上級の (n)役員／(a)執行力のある of the Church of Scientology, said an 積極的な （選挙などの）運動をする was 開始する，打ち上げるd to break up the couple.

It 含むd wiretapping Kidman's phone and psychoanalysing 巡航する and his movements around the clock.

The personal （警察などへの）密告，告訴（状） they gathered was then passed to Miscavige.

Rathbun even 明言する／公表するs that the Church of Scientology 're-educated' 巡航する's 可決する・採択するd children, Connor and Isabella, so they would turn against their mother in a 企て，努力，提案 to make 巡航する's 保護／拘留 事例／患者 stronger.

The Church 公然と非難するd the 主張s made in the 爆発性の film upon its 解放（する）. In a five-page letter to the Hollywood Reporter, the church said: 'By our 計算／見積り, the film on 普通の／平均（する） 含むs at least one major error every two minutes.'

However, it does appear that, since 離婚ing 巡航する, Kidman's 関係 with their children has been more distant - and when her son Connor married in a Scientology 儀式 in 2019, she was 顕著に absent.

It was 報告（する）／憶測d at the time that 巡航する had 禁じるd his son from 招待するing Nicole to the occasion because of her status as a 'suppressive person'.

Neither of the adult children were 現在の at the Dolby Theatre in Hollywood as their mother received the accolade

At the time, an insider told レーダ: 'First, Tom would never even consider inviti ng Nicole to Connor's wedding because she's considered a 'suppressive person' by the church ― and, second, he doesn't want her there.'

They 追加するd that the 使節団 Impossible 星／主役にする turned his 支援する on Nicole 'a long time ago' and has never looked 支援する.

にもかかわらず not 存在 seen in public with Bella and Connor since 2007, Nicole has spoken of her eldest children on occasion, 明らかにする／漏らすing her 耐えるing love for them.

Speaking to The Sun in in 2019, Nicole said: 'Motherhood is about the 旅行. There are going to be incredible 頂点（に達する）s and valleys, whether you are an 可決する・採択するing mother or a birth mother. What a child needs is love.

'They have made choices to be Scientologists. It's our 職業 as a parent to always 申し込む／申し出 無条件の love.'?

She also told Woman's 週刊誌 in 2014 that her children were 'generous, 肉親，親類d and hardworking', as she 述べるd her film Lion (in which she plays an adoptive mother) as a 'love letter' to them.?

However, the children have 以前 否定するd there is a 不和 within the family.

In 2014, Connor said: 'I don't care what people say. I know that me and mum are solid. I love her a lot. My family means everything.'

Speaking to MailOnline in 2016, Bella, who now lives in London with her IT 経営者／支配人? husband, said: 'Of course [we talk], they're my parents,' she says. 'Anyone who says さもなければ is 十分な of s**t.'

In 2012 she told New Idea: 'I love mom. [Nicole's] my mom. She's 広大な／多数の／重要な. I see her いつかs and I speak to her,' 追加するing 'we're a very の近くに family. I love all of our family.'?

Bella's Instagram 扱う shows she also 保持するs her mother's surname - using Bella Kidman 巡航する.?

Nicole's 関係 with the children she 株 with 巡航する is a 星／主役にする k contrast to that of his third wife, Katie Holmes.

She and Suri 巡航する, 18, 株 an incredibly の近くに 関係 after the Dawson's Creek actress 保持するd 十分な 保護／拘留 in the 離婚 協定, and the pair moved to New York.

Although breaking 解放する／自由な from the church of Scientology and 離婚ing its most 影響力のある member was a risky 商売／仕事, Katie Holmes had a secret 武器 - her 離婚 弁護士／代理人／検事 father, ツバメ Holmes.?

Although 巡航する 支払う／賃金s だいたい $400,000 in child support to Holmes for Suri, he is said to have 'no part' in his daughter's life

Katie has 以前 明らかにする／漏らすd how her daughter Suri comments on her outfits and has a '広大な／多数の／重要な 注目する，もくろむ' when it comes to fashion

Katie Holmes's father ツバメ, a 離婚 弁護士／代理人／検事, was 報告（する）／憶測d to have 'orchestrated' the 分裂（する） between his daughter and Tom 巡航する

People magazine 報告（する）／憶測d Katie turned to ツバメ for 広告 副／悪徳行為 before making any moves to 分裂（する） from Tom and that he 'helped orchestrate his daughter's sudden 分裂（する）' from the actor.?

'Marty is very rigid ? it's his way or the 主要道路,' a Toledo 弁護士／代理人／検事 who has worked with ツバメ told the magazine.

'Marty believes there are only two 始める，決めるs of 支配するs: the 支配するs of the 法廷，裁判所 and his 支配するs, and he carries himself that way.'

離婚 文書s at the time 明らかにする／漏らすd that Katie Holmes would receive $400,000 every year from multi-millionaire Tom in the way of child support until Suri turns 18.

The Hollywood actor would also 支払う／賃金 for Suri's 医療の and dental expenses 同様に as her 保険, education costs and college tuition. The money is 報道によれば paid by electronic 移転.

Regarding Suri's education, the couple agreed their daughter would not …に出席する 搭乗 school - which quashed rumours she would …に出席する a Scientology-led 会・原則.

Katie was 認めるd 単独の 保護／拘留 of their daughter while Tom was 許すd 'meaningful' visitation 権利s.

However, in a 状況／情勢 that appears to be the 逆転する of his 関係 with Bella and Connor, Tom has not been seen out in public with his daughter for around a １０年間, and sources have （人命などを）奪う，主張するd he now has little 関与 in her life.

The last photo of the 最高の，を越す Gun actor out and about with his daughter was a trip to Disneyland in 2012, the year his 離婚 from Katie was finalised.?

That same year, the Hollywood 巨人 was 報告（する）／憶測d not to have seen his daughter for more than 100 days, between a holiday they took in August and Thanksgiving in November.

As Nicole raises her youngest children Sunday Rose, 15 and 約束 Margaret, 13, with her second husband Keith 都市の, she has 顕著に kept the 十代の少年少女s out of the lim elight.

During her emotional 受託 speech at the?American Film 学校／設ける Life 業績／成就 Award 祝祭, she referred to the girls as the 'loves of [her] life'.

Nicole 追加するd: 'My daughters have never been anywhere 公然と with me on a red carpet, tonight was their first night, so they're here, Sunday and 約束.'?