EXCLUSIVE'Our love story will always be my favourite': This Morning life coach Michelle Elman 噴出するd about her fiance 'Ben' in her new 調書をとる／予約する - just weeks before ダンピング him for cheating

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This Morning 関係 専門家 Michelle Elman 賞賛するd her 'wonderful' fianc? Ben in her new 調書をとる／予約する just weeks before she 捨てるd him for cheating on her, MailOnline can 明らかにする／漏らす.

The life coach and author, 30, who often appears on ITV to give advice about 関係s, shocked fans 明らかにする／漏らすing that the couple's 約束／交戦 had ended after just 24 hours.

Now MailOnline can 明らかにする／漏らす how she paid 尊敬の印 to her ex Ben just months before they ended their almost three-year 関係.

In her 最新の 調書をとる／予約する The Selfish Romantic, that was published in January, she wrote a 噴出するing 尊敬の印 to her boyfriend, telling her fans their 'love story will always be [her] favourite'.

On the 承認 page, where she also thanked her 'inner circle', she wrote: 'And thank you to Ben. It isn't 平易な dating an author, let alone one 令状ing a dating 調書をとる／予約する.

Do YOU know who Ben is? Email eirian.prosser@dailymail.co.uk??

This Morning 関係 専門家 Michelle Elman 賞賛するd her 'wonderful' fianc? Ben in her new 調書をとる／予約する just weeks before she 捨てるd him for cheating on her. Pictured: The couple in happier times?

Michelle had 以前 発表するd her 約束／交戦 with her boyfriend of almost three years with a photo of the couple on her social マスコミ but yesterday 明らかにする／漏らすd they had 分裂（する）

In an emotional ビデオ, 発表するing her 24 hour 約束／交戦 she said: 'All of this f***ing sucks but I always say this or something better. So I guess I'm 予定 something better'

In the 承認 page of her 最新の 調書をとる／予約する The Selfish Romantic, Michelle paid 尊敬の印 to Ben telling her fans their 'love story will always be [her] favourite'.

'Th ank you for never getting sick of 審理，公聴会 about the 最新の piece of dating 研究 I 設立する and 持つ／拘留するing my 手渡す through the rollercoaster of emotions that is 存在 an author.

'It means the world that you 信用d me to 令状 whatever I 手配中の，お尋ね者 about us. Our love story will always be my favourite. Thank you for always giving me a 安全な space to land. I love you so much and this just the beginning of us.'

Throughout their 関係, the pair went to 広大な／多数の／重要な lengths to hide Ben's 身元 from the public 注目する，もくろむ.

Michelle never 明らかにする／漏らすd his 直面する, tagged or 指名するd him in any pictures online and later explained her mystery man had no social マスコミ accounts of his own.

She would 地位，任命する photographs of the 支援する of his 長，率いる or just of his 手渡す ーするために 隠す his 身元.

In one 噴出するing 地位，任命する about her new-設立する love, she said: 'He's been the man behind these photos before you even knew he 存在するd. He's the guy without social マスコミ who fell in love with an influencer hehe.'

The lifestyle influencer 追加するd that Ben had 'spoiled [her] 計画（する） to 令状 a dating 調書をとる／予約する from a 選び出す／独身 woman's 視野 by asking me to be his girlfriend two weeks before getting a 調書をとる／予約する 取引，協定 for The Selfish Romantic'.

The life coach and author, who has frequently appeared on the ITV show to give advice about 関係s, took to her Instagram to explain that she had ended 約束／交戦 after just 24 hours (pictured on This Morning last week)

Captioning the emotional clip, she penned: 'I’m really putting my heart on my sleeve here and this is the most 攻撃を受けやすい I have ever got on here. Sending love to anyone who has a 類似の story. Onwards and upwar ds'

Michelle had been 選び出す／独身 for eight years when she began dating her former partner in August 2021 (pictured)

In August, celebrating their two year 周年記念日, Michelle 宣言するd to Ben: 'I love you more than I ever thought I could love a human'

Michelle never 明らかにする／漏らすd Ben's 直面する, tagged or 指名するd him in any pictures online and later explained her mystery man had no social マスコミ accounts of his own

In August, celebrating their two year 周年記念日, Michelle 宣言するd to Ben: 'I love you more than I ever thought I could love a human.'

と一緒に the 地位，任命する, where she spoke about the second year of their 関係 存在 harder than the first, she 株d a montage of her smiling and laughing, with a clip at the end showing Ben wrapping his 武器 around her.

Michelle had been 選び出す／独身 for eight years when she started dating Ben - the first man she saw に引き続いて the Covid pandemic after four others had 保釈（金）d on their date last minute.?

The couple had been in a seemingly happy 関係, with the author 以前 発表するing her 近づいている nuptials with a photo on social マスコミ.

Yet later that day Michelle received a message from one of her 信奉者s 明らかにする／漏らすing he had been cheating on Michelle with her.?

In an emotional ビデオ last night, Michelle 明らかにする／漏らすd that Ben had 'f***ed up' and '廃虚d a really good thing' - but 主張するd to her 関心d fans that she would be 承認する .

The TV personality made light of the fact she has made a career out of giving people advice about their love life as she 認める she finds it '深く，強烈に ironic now'.

The couple had been in a seemingly happy 関係, with the author 以前 発表するing her 近づいている nuptials with a photo on social マスコミ

Michelle became a motivational coach after living through her own childhood experiences of life-脅すing health problems

At the end of her ビデオ, Michelle put on a 勇敢に立ち向かう 直面する and said she was '傷をいやす／和解させるing', as she said: 'All of this f***ing sucks but I always say this or something better. So I guess I'm 予定 something better'

と一緒に an old ビデオ of herself talking about how to have a 確信して mindset to end jealously, she said: 'And yes I know a lot of my 地位，任命するs are 深く，強烈に ironic now.

'The hazard of 地位，任命するing online but at least you can't say I don't practice what I preach. Good riddance 正確に／まさに.'??

In the previous ビデオ she had said:?'I've never understood jealously, I always find it a compliment because if someone is hitting on someone I'm with I'm like, 削減（する） - you can try, won't happen.'

'And you know what, even if it does happen? Good riddance. Thanks for taking him off my 手渡すs.'

The author also 地位，任命するd a conversation with a friend where her pal had joked 'at least he won't cheat on you', telling the influencer she had gone for a '安全な 選択' in her partner.?

Michelle became a motivational coach after living through her own childhood experiences of life-脅すing health problems, long stays in hospital and fifteen コンビナート／複合体 外科s that left her scarred, both mentally and 肉体的に.

She had a brain tumour, a 穴をあけるd intestine, an 妨害するd bowel, a cyst in her brain and a 条件 called hydrocephalus - where fluid builds up in the brain, 原因（となる）ing, dangerous 圧力 that can be 致命的な if untreated.

Explaining her absence from social マスコミ, Michelle began: 'I don't know how to make this ビデオ so I'm just going to get into it. The last you heard from me I was engaged and I'm not anymore.

The writer also 明らかにする／漏らすd that the couple had been trying for a baby for several months before they had 分裂（する）, and said she had begun dating while away

Michelle later took to her Instagram Stories to thank her 信奉者s for their outpouring of support and 明らかにする／漏らす?that the couple had been trying for a baby for several months before they had 分裂（する）

Michelle - who kept her ex-boyfriend's 身元 私的な until their 約束／交戦 - also asked her 信奉者s not to try and 跡をつける him 負かす／撃墜する, 説 she had forgiven him almost '即時に' as while their 関係 was over, she still loved him

'The day I 地位，任命するd that 約束／交戦 photo is the day I 設立する out he had been cheating on me and one of the women he was cheating on me with 現実に followed me and that's how I 設立する out.

'She's a lovely woman, and she didn't know, and you've got to love his taste in women. You've got to laugh. We're laughing and crying a lot over here.'

She continued: 'The main thing people always say with cheating is "Did you know?" And 明白に not because I said yes to marrying him.

'But also does it 事柄? I think what I've realised through all of this is if someone wants to 活発に deceive you they will.

'When it comes to life coaches there's this illusion that we're perfect, we're all knowing or that we have our lives together and it's just not true.

'I've always said I'm just five steps ahead and that's how I am able to teach other people.

'The only difference is I have all the 道具s and 資源s to make sure I'm okay 権利 now and that I know I'm going to learn from this.'

Breaking into 涙／ほころびs, she 追加するd: 'My own life coach says we never let a good 危機 go to waste, and this is a 危機. I think I am a good life coach because I f*** up more than you and I learn from it.'

Michelle, who has received a wealth of support since making her 告示, later took to Instagram to discuss the 分裂（する） その上の

Michelle also 地位，任命するd a screenshot of a conversation with a friend, where she joked about the 肩書を与える of a 調書をとる／予約する she should 令状 about the 状況／情勢

Michelle became a motivational coach after living through her own childhood experiences of life-脅すing health problems, long stays in hospital and fifteen コンビナート／複合体 外科s that left her scarred, both mentally and 肉体的に

She then 訂正するd her self and said: '現実に, let me rephrase that one because I didn't f**k up - he did. And he 廃虚d a really?good thing. And it was a good thing - when it was good, it was really good.'

にもかかわらず her heartbreak, Michelle told a fan that she had already forgiven Ben for his deception.

She said: 'I already do 許す him. It was pretty much instant for me because he is the person who has loved me most in the world and this has really taught me that 無条件の love does 存在する because I do still love him.

'The love is 無条件の, the 関係 is not and I won't be staying but I do 許す him. I've been comparing it to a bank account.?

'All the love he has 注ぐd into me in the last three years has put coins in the bank, his cheating drained the bank account but I'm not leaving the 関係 in 負債.'?

Michelle later took to her Instagram Stories to thank her 信奉者s for their outpouring of support with a selfie, and explained that she was on a 単独の holiday.

The writer also 明らかにする／漏らすd that the couple had been trying for a baby for several months before they had 分裂（する）, and said she had begun dating while away.

She wrote: 'I'm so 打ち勝つ by all the love. Thank you for all the 親切. Do you remember when I said I was going to 調書をとる／予約する a 単独の trip?

'The part I didn't tell you is because we had been trying for a bay for three months so I 手配中の，お尋ね者 to do it before I was 妊娠している.

'So I'm on the 単独の trip now. Coming 支援する tomorrow. 感謝する I'm not 妊娠している and also have gone on dates while here.'

Michelle became a motivational coach after living through her own childhood experiences of life-脅すing health problems, long stays in hospital and fifteen コンビナート／複合体 外科s that left her scarred, both mentally and 肉体的に.

She had a brain tumour, a 穴をあけるd intestine, an 妨害するd bowel, a cyst in her brain and a 条件 called hydrocephalus - where fluid builds up in the brain, 原因（となる）ing, dangerous 圧力 that can be 致命的な if untreated.