Bombshell after bombshell: The best 引用するs from Harry and Meghan’s shocking Oprah interview

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Meghan on the secret wedding

Meghan: 'Even at our wedding, you know, three days before our wedding, we got married. No one knows that.

'But we called the 大司教, and we just said, "Look, this thing, this spectacle is for the world, but we want our union between us."?

Prince Harry: 'Just the three of us.'

Meghan and Kate argument

Meghan: 'The narrative with Kate which didn't happen was really, really difficult and something that I think that's when everything changed, really.

'The 逆転する happened. And I don't say that to be disparaging to anyone, because it was a really hard week of the wedding.

'And she was upset about something, but she owned it, and she apologised. And she brought me flowers and a 公式文書，認める, apologising.'

On 圧力（をかける） narrative:

Oprah: ‘So, do you think there was a 基準 for Kate in general and a separate one for you? And if so, why?'

Britain's Prince Harry and Meghan, Duchess of Sussex, are interviewed by Oprah Winfrey

Meghan: ‘I don't know why. I can see now what 層s were at play there. And, again, they really seemed to want a narrative of a hero and a villain.'

On 存在 silent or 存在 silenced

Meghan: ‘‘The latter. Everyone in my world was given very （疑いを）晴らす 指示的な from the moment the world knew Harry and I were dating to always say "No comment."

'That's my friends, my mum and dad. ‘I did anything they told me to do. Of course I did, because it was also through the レンズ of "And we'll 保護する you."

'So, even as things started to roll out in the マスコミ that I didn't see but my friends would call me and say, "Meg, this is really bad," because I didn't see it, I'd go, "Don't worry. I'm 存在 保護するd."

On 'not 存在 保護するd'

Meghan: 'I think that was really hard to reconcile because it was only once we were married and everything started to really より悪くする that I （機の）カム to understand th at not only was I not 存在 保護するd but that they were willing to 嘘（をつく） to 保護する other members of the family, but they weren't willing to tell the truth to 保護する me and my husband.’

On 会合 the Queen

Meghan: ‘We had breakfast together that morning, and she'd given me a beautiful gift, and I just really loved 存在 in her company. And I remember we were in the car.’

Prince Harry, Duke of Sussex and Britain's Queen Elizabeth II 提起する／ポーズをとる for a picture during the Queen's Young Leaders Awards 儀式 at Buckingham Palace in London in 2018

'She gave me some beautiful pearl earrings and a matching necklace. And we were in the car going between 約束／交戦s, and she has a 一面に覆う／毛布 that sits across her 膝s for warmth.

‘And it was chilly, and she was like, "Meghan, come on," and put it over my 膝 s, 同様に. I think everyone welcomed me.’

On 'character 暗殺'

Meghan: ‘I'm talking about things that are 最高の 人工的な and inconsequential. But the narrative about, you know, making Kate cry I think was the beginning of a real character 暗殺.

‘And they knew it wasn't true. And I thought, 井戸／弁護士席, if they're not going to kill things like that, then what are we going to do?’

On （人命などを）奪う，主張するs Archie was to be 否定するd 安全?

Meghan: ‘And that was when they were 説 they didn't want him to be a prince or a princess not knowing what the gender would be, which would be different from 議定書 and that he wasn't going to receive 安全.??

Prince Harry, Duke of Sussex, and his wife Meghan, Duchess of Sussex with their baby Archie

‘But if you're 説 the 肩書を与える is what's going to 影響する／感情 their 保護, we 港／避難所't created this monster machine around us ーに関して／ーの点でs of clickbait and tabloid fodder.

'You've 許すd that to happen, which means our son needs to be 安全な.'?

On if the 肩書を与えるs are important to her?

Meghan: 'All the grandeur surrounding this stuff is an attachment that I don't 本人自身で have, 権利?

‘I've been a waitress, an actress, a princess, a duchess. I've always just still been Meghan, 権利?

‘So, for me, I'm （疑いを）晴らす on who I am, 独立した・無所属 of all that stuff. And the most important 肩書を与える I will ever have is "Mum." I know that.'?

Meghan on race and the 王室の family

Meghan: 'I can give you an honest answer. In those months when I was 妊娠している, all around this same time so we have in tandem the conversation of "He won't be given 安全, he's not going to be given a 肩書を与える," and also 関心s and conversations about how dark his 肌 might be when he's born.'

Oprah: 'Who is having that conversation with you? What?'

Meghan: ‘There were several conversations about it.'

Oprah: 'About how dark your baby is going to be?'

Meghan: '潜在的に, and what that would mean or look like.'

Oprah: 'And you're not going to tell me who had the conversation?'

Meghan: 'I think that would be very 損失ing to them.'

On UK 圧力（をかける） and mental health

Meghan: ‘I just didn't see a 解答. I just didn't see a 解答. I would sit up at night, and I was just, like, I don't understand how all of this is 存在 churned out.?

‘And, look, I was really ashamed to say it at the time and ashamed to have to 収容する／認める it to Harry, 特に, because I know how much loss he's 苦しむd.

‘But I knew that if I didn't say it, that I would do it. And I just didn't I just didn't want to be alive anymore.

'And that was a very （疑いを）晴らす and real and 脅すing constant thought. And I remember I remember how he just cradled me.

Meghan Markle discussed mental health during her conversation with Oprah Winfrey on CBS

‘And I was I went to the 会・原則, and I said that I needed to go somewhere to get help. I said that "I'v e never felt this way before, and I need to go somewhere."

‘And I was told that I couldn't, that it wouldn't be good for the 会・原則.’

Oprah: 'So, were you thinking of 害（を与える）ing yourself? Were you having suicidal thoughts? Meghan: ‘Yes. This was very, very （疑いを）晴らす.’

On telling ‘her truth’

Meghan: 'I think I'm not going to live my life in 恐れる. You know, I think so much of it is said with an understanding of just truth.

‘But I think, to answer your question, I don't know how they could 推定する／予想する that after all of this time, we would still just be silent if there is an active 役割 that the 会社／堅い is playing in perpetuating falsehoods about us.

‘That at a 確かな point, you're going to go, "But, you guys, someone just tell the truth." And if that comes with 危険 of losing things, I mean, I've lost there's a lot that's been lost already.'?

On the 最新の 王室の baby

Oprah: 'For the new 新規加入 to your family.

'Meghan said she 手配中の，お尋ね者 to wait until you were here to tell us, is it a boy or is it a girl??

Harry:?'It's a girl.'

Prince Harry and Meghan Markle 発表するd they were having a girl for their second child - which is 予定 in the summer

Meghan: 'It's a girl.'?

Harry:?'Yes! I'm just 感謝する, like any to have any child, any one or any two would have been amazing. But to have a boy and then a girl, you know, what more can you ask for?'

'But now, you know, now we've got our family. We've got, you know, the four of us and our two dogs, and it's 広大な／多数の／重要な.'

Oprah: 'Done? Two is it?'?

Harry:?'Done.'

On leaving the UK

Meghan: 'We didn't have a 計画（する）. We needed a house, and he (Tyler Perry) 申し込む／申し出d 安全, 同様に, so it gave us breathing room to try to 人物／姿／数字 out what we are going to do.?

'It's been so spun in the wrong direction, as though we やめる, we walked away, all the conversations of the two years before we finally 発表するd it.'

On Megxit

Harry: ‘Yeah, it was desperate. I went to all the places which I thought I should go to, to ask for help. We both did... 分かれて and together.'

Oprah: 'So, you left because you were asking for help and couldn't get it?'

Harry: 'Yeah, 基本的に. But we never left.'

Meghan: ‘We never left the family, and we only 手配中の，お尋ね者 to have the same type of 役割 that 存在するs, 権利?'

‘So, we weren't reinventing the wheel here. We were 説, "Okay, if this isn't working for everyone, we're in a lot of 苦痛, you can't 供給する us with the help that we need, we can just take a step 支援する. We can do it in a 連邦／共和国 country." We 示唆するd New Zealand, South Africa.'

On ‘history repeating itself’

Harry: ‘(We 手配中の，お尋ね者 to) Take a breath. From this constant 一斉射撃，（質問などの）連発／ダム. My biggest 関心 was history repeating itself, and I've said that before on 非常に／多数の occasions, very 公然と.

‘And what I was seeing was history repeating itself, but more, perhaps or definitely far more dangerous, because then you 追加する race in and you 追加する social マスコミ in.

‘And when I'm talking about history repeating itself, I'm talking about my my mother.'?

Harry on the 圧力（をかける）

Harry: 'You know, as sad as it is to say, it takes living in her shoes in this instance, for a day or those first eight days to see where it was going to go and how far they were going to take it.

‘And get away with it and be so 露骨な／あからさまの about it. Tha t's the bit that shocked me.

'This - the UK is my home. That is where I was brought up. So, yes, I've got my own 関係 that goes 支援する a long way with the マスコミ.?

'I asked for 静める from the British tabloids once as a boyfriend, once as a husband, and once as a father.'

Why did Harry and Meghan leave?

Harry: ‘欠如（する） of support and 欠如（する） of understanding.'

The Duke and Duchess of Sussex, in a conversation with US television host Oprah Winfrey

Oprah: 'So, I want clarity. Was the move about getting away from the UK 圧力（をかける）? Or was the move because you weren't getting enough support from the 会社／堅い?

Prince Harry: ‘It was both.’

Harry and ‘blindsiding’ the Queen

Oprah: 'Did you blindside the queen?'

Harry: 'No. I've never blindsided my grandmother. I have too much 尊敬（する）・点 for her.'

‘My grandmother has been amazing throughout. You know, my father, my brother, Kate and all the 残り／休憩（する） of the family, they were.?

'They were really welcoming. But it really changed after the Australia 小旅行する, after our south pacific 小旅行する.’

Harry on his 関係 with Prince Charles

Harry: ‘When we were in Canada, I had three conversations with my grandmother and two conversations with my father and before he stopped taking my calls and then said, "Can you put this all in 令状ing what your 計画（する） is?"?

'I put all the 明確な／細部s in there, even the fact that we were planning on putting the 告示 out on the 7th of January.

Oprah: 'So, you just said that your dad stopped taking your calls. Why did he stop taking your calls?'

Harry: 'Because... I took 事柄s into my own 手渡すs. It was like I need to do this for my family. This is not a surprise to anybody.

'It's really sad that it's gotten to this point, but I've got to do something for my own mental health, my wife's, and for Archie's, 同様に, because I could see where this was 長，率いるd.'

Harry’s （人命などを）奪う，主張する that his family is ‘脅すd’ of the 圧力（をかける）

Harry: ‘No from my family ever said anything over those three years. And that 傷つけるs. But I also am acutely aware of where my family stand and how 脅すd they are of the tabloids turning on them.

Prince Harry （人命などを）奪う，主張するd members of the 王室の family were '脅すd' of the 圧力（をかける）

'Yes, but it's there is this invisible what's 称する，呼ぶ／期間／用語d or referred to as the "Invisible 契約" behind の近くにd doors between the 会・原則 and the tabloids, the UK. Tabloids.

On 存在 ‘罠にかける’ in 王室の life

Oprah: 'How were you 罠にかける?

Harry: ‘罠にかける within the system, like the 残り／休憩（する） of my family are. My father and my brother, they are 罠にかける.

'They don't get to leave. And I have 抱擁する compassion for that.'

On Netflix and Spotify

Harry: 'Yeah, it 存在するs. But, also, the Netflix and the Spotify, they're all that was never part of the 計画（する）.'

Meghan: 'We didn't have a 計画（する）.'

Harry: 'We didn't have a 計画（する）. That was 示唆するd by somebody else by the point of where my family literally 削減（する） me off financially, and I had to afford 安全 for us.'

Oprah: 'Wa it. '停止する. Wait a minute. Your family 削減（する） you off?'

Harry: 'Yeah, in the first half, the first ４半期/4分の1 of 2020. But I've got what my mum left me, and, without that, we would not have been able to do this.'

Harry’s 関係 with his family

Harry: 'I've spoken more to my grandmother in the last year than I have done for many, many years. We did a couple of zoom calls with Archie.

'My grandmother and I have a really good 関係...'

Oprah: 'Your 関係 with your father? Is he taking your calls now?'

Harry: 'Yeah. Yeah, he is. There's a lot to work through there, you know? I feel really let 負かす／撃墜する, because he's been through something 類似の.

‘He knows what 苦痛 feels like, and this is and Archie's his grandson. But, at the same time, you know, I of course I will always love him, but there's a lot of 傷つける that's happened.

‘And I will continue to make it one of my 優先s to try and 傷をいやす／和解させる that 関係.’

Oprah: 'Yeah. And your brother? 関係? Much has been said about that?'

Harry: 'Yeah, and much will continue to be said about that. You know, as I've said before, I love William to bits. He's my brother.

'We've been through hell together. I mean, we have a 株d experience. But you know, we're on we're on different paths.’

On the 未来

H arry: ‘I'm sad that what's happened has happened, but I know, and I'm comfortable in knowing that we did everything that we could to make it work.

'And we did everything on the 出口 過程 the way that-- the way that it should have been done.'

Prince Harry and Meghan Markle said they were '栄えるing' in their new life in the 部隊d 明言する／公表するs

On taking away his patronages

Harry: ‘I am 傷つける. But at the same time, I 完全に 尊敬（する）・点 my grandmother's 決定／判定勝ち（する）.

'I would still love for us to be able to continue to support those 協会s, albeit without the 肩書を与える or the 役割.'

Meghan’s one 悔いる

Meghan: ‘I have one. My 悔いる is believing them when they said I would be 保護するd. I believed that.

'And I 悔いる believing that because I think, had I really seen th at that wasn't happening, I would have been able to do more.

‘But I think I wasn't supposed to see it. I wasn't supposed to know.

‘And now, because we're 現実に on the other 味方する, we've 現実に not just 生き残るd but are 栄えるing.’