計画（する） 乗客 誘発するs 猛烈な／残忍な 審議 after 明らかにする／漏らすing she left her 6ft 6in brother to sit in economy while she 受託するd a first class 昇格 during 12-hour flight

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A 計画（する） 乗客 has 誘発するd 猛烈な／残忍な 審議 after 明らかにする／漏らすing she left her 6ft 6in brother to sit in economy while she 受託するd a first class 昇格 during 12-hour flight.

The woman, known only as Abby, took to Reddit's popular Am I The A**穴を開ける thread to ask if she was in the wrong for 受託するing the 昇格 during the 12-hour flight.

Abby, who is only 5ft 1in, explained?that she had been 申し込む／申し出d the chance to sit in first class as she 長，率いるd to?Hawaii?to celebrate her father's 退職.

She took the 適切な時期 'in a heartbeat' but was later given the 冷淡な shoulder by her family who branded her 活動／戦闘s as 'awful.'?

The keen 旅行者, known only as Abby, took to Reddit's popular Am I The A**穴を開ける thread to ask if she was in the wrong for 受託するing the 昇格 during the 12-hour flight?

In the 地位，任命する, which was 株d last week, Abby began: 'We are at the beginning of my dad's 退職 family trip. He is 支払う／賃金ing for all of us to 会合，会う as a family in Hawaii for a week since he is retiring after working at the same company for 42 years.?

'There are six of us but my brother and I live in the same part of the country.

'I guess it's 関連した to say I am 5ft1in and my brother is 6ft6in. I 飛行機で行く all the time for work and have やめる a bit of status with the 航空機による for which my dad bought our tickets.'

She continued: 'We were all boarded and ready to go when a flight attendant （機の）カム up to me and whispered that they had a first class 乗客 not show up and they needed the coach seat to 融通する a 代替要員，物 乗客.?

'She said I had by far the most status of anyone on the 計画（する） so they were willing to move me to first class for 解放する／自由な. I was like oh yeah - and I took it in a heartbeat.?

'I told my brother I'd see him in 12 hours and let me know if he 手配中の，お尋ね者 any food or drink and I grabbed my stuff and moved. Needless to say I had a nice flight.'

But relations started to get frosty after the flight reached its 目的地.?

'When we landed and were waiting for our 往復（する） my brother was so p**sy but wouldn't tell me what was going on. He didn't speak to me the whole 往復（する） ride.?

Abby, who is only 5ft 1in, explained that she had been 申し込む／申し出d the chance to sit in first class as she 長，率いるd to Hawaii to celebrate her father's 退職 (在庫／株 image)

'We had a nice hello with the 残り／休憩（する） of the family but after I got 負かす／撃墜する from my にわか雨 my mom took me aside and said what I did "was awful."?

'I asked her what she was talking about and she said that I should have given my brother the seat. I thought that would be the end of it but all 5 of my siblings and my parents are upset with me and the vacation is off to a very rough start.

'I was trying to play with my niece and 甥 in the ロビー waiting for lunch and my sister said "no they only like to play with people who give a shit about their family--what were you thinking?"??

'I asked her if this was about the first class thing and she said "what do you think its about?" I said that he never asked me to switch with him, she said "an asshole makes people beg, family members don't."'

'I've been by myself since brunch and not having much fun.'?

Her 地位，任命する was soon flooded with comments with readers left 激しく divided.?

On the one 手渡す, many people 主張するd that she was not in the wrong as one?person wrote: 'NTA,?but you sure have a family of them. Your status got you the 申し込む／申し出. If you 拒絶する／低下するd it, it wouldn't have gone to your brother anyway.?

'No 推論する／理由 you should have turned it 負かす／撃墜する just to stay in coach with your brother. Try to explain it to your family, but 非，不，無 of this makes you an a**穴を開ける.'

A second person commented: 'Your brother is a passive-積極的な whiner, who 明らかに can't even USE HIS WORDS, and runs to his mommy to fight his 論争s for him.?

'You 全く deserved that 昇格, and even more so in retrospect, because of how your brother 行為／法令／行動するd like a toddler, who 行方不明になるd his nap. You (and your niece and 甥) are the only 非，不，無-A's in this story.'

On the one 手渡す, many people 主張するd that she was not in the wrong as one person wrote: ' NTA , but you sure have a family of them'?

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Another 追加するd: 'NTA. You earned your status by 飛行機で行くing so frequently for work. Your brother did not - he's not する権利を与えるd to YOUR 昇格 [that] YOU earned.?

'I'd also argue that if you're 飛行機で行くing that frequently, you deserve first class every once [in a] while. I honestly think it's s***ty your whole family has 味方するd with your brother.?

'If they are SO 関心d with his 慰安, they could have all chipped in to 確実にする he got a seat with more 脚 room in first class.'??????

Someone else commented: 'NTA... 本気で? Why is your brother magically する権利を与えるd to use your points/status? No. You family sounds awful. Don't 許容する this for a moment.'?

A fifth person wrote: 'The seat would NOT have gone to your brother. If you 拒絶する／低下するd it, the seat would have gone to the person with the next-highest points.?

'Your family needs to SERIOUSLY get over themselves. NTA.'

One person 追加するd: 'I hate when people spend other people's money. You earned those points by 飛行機で行くing. Giving the 昇格 to your brother 量d to giving him A LOT of money. NTA.'

But, on the other 手渡す, there were those who thought she was in the wrong.

One person wrote: 'Finally, a 発言する／表明する of 推論する／理由! I'm five-foot-six [and] my brother is six-foot-three. If I was in the same 状況／情勢, I would have?申し込む／申し出d to 交換（する） for part of the flight.?

'A 12-hour-flight at that. Technically, she didn't have to, but it would have been the 肉親，親類d thing to do. YTA.'

A second person 追加するd: 'By the letter of the 法律 you're n-t-a. But in my opinion, you're 100000 per cent YTA.?

But, on the other 手渡す, there were those who thought she was in the wrong. One person wrote: 'Finally, a 発言する／表明する of 推論する／理由!'?

'I'm five-feet. My father is six-foot-three and big boned. If this was our 状況／情勢, it wouldn't have even been an 申し込む／申し出 - I would have 主張するd he sit in the seat.???????

'Traveling is uncomfortable for everyone, but at least it's the least uncomfortable for us short people. Six-foot-six? It wouldn't have been a question to give the seat to a brother.'

A third person wrote: 'She could 100 per cent have given the seat to her brother. You can 任意に give your 昇格d seat to anyone you want.?

'It's just a seat 交換（する）. I've done it with my spouse, my mom [and] a total stranger.??

'The 航空機による doesn't care. He wasn't する権利を与えるd to it, but that's a different 問題／発行する . 味方する point.?

'Does anyone else think it's moderately [an] a**穴を開ける move to peace out on your travel companion for 12 hours? People 拒絶する／低下する 昇格s all the time for 正確に／まさに this 推論する／理由.'

Abby went 支援する into her 地位，任命する to 追加する an edit to 供給する その上の 状況 about the 状況／情勢 after getting a lot of commenters.

She 追加するd: 'Wow this 全く blew up, thank you for commenting everyone.?

'I only saw my family for a little yesterday, and they were still made at me to 変化させるing degrees.?

'I have a really good friend that lives here in the 軍の, so she hung out with [me], and we met some really fun and 削減（する） guys at a dive 妨げる／法廷，弁護士業.?

She took the 適切な時期 'in a heartbeat' but was later given the 冷淡な shoulder by her family who branded her 活動／戦闘s as 'awful' (在庫／株 image)?

'So my vacation will be 広大な／多数の／重要な, no 事柄 what. But reading your comments really gave me to 信用／信任 to not give a c**** (or try to a t least!), thank you.'

California-based?Dr. Kathy Nickerson, PhD, a 臨床の psychologist has since 株d with Fox News 数字表示式の: 'It would have been nice for the [Reddit writer] to give her brother the 昇格 because coach is far いっそう少なく comfortable for someone who is six-feet-six, than five-feet-one.

'However, I can understand that since the flight attendant whispered in her ear, [the woman] might have thought she needed to be 控えめの and not 申し込む／申し出 it to her brother.

California-based Dr. Kathy Nickerson, PhD, a 臨床の psychologist has 株d her opinion on the heated Reddit 審議

'If we could go 支援する in time, I would have whispered in [the woman's] ear: 'Are you 承認する here? I know it is not first class, but can you を取り引きする this, and let your brother go instead? Seems like he's pretty uncomfortable.'

Kat hy 追加するd that it would have been 'a thoughtful, loving, 肉親，親類d gesture' for the women to 申し込む／申し出 her brother the first class seat instead.

She 追加するd: 'Now that it is done, the best thing to do is わびる to her brother and 表明する understanding to her family.?

'It's reasonable for everyone to feel the way they do. It's not so reasonable to 廃虚 the family vacation because of it.

'People make poor 決定／判定勝ち（する）s all the time. People can be selfish and thoughtless いつかs. Everyone deserves compassion, and a chance to make 修正するs.?

'Having everyone in the family berate and 非難する the [woman] is not helpful. It creates an emotionally 危険な 環境, which only encourages more harmful 行為.'

Kathy recommended for all the 親族s to have 'a family 会合, where they can わびる for the hurtful choices, all around, and 表明する some understanding for the others' feelings and agree to do better next time, then move on.??

She 追加するd that the 焦点（を合わせる） moving 今後 should be: 'Let's 許す each other, learn from this and enjoy our trip.'