Flight attendant 明らかにする／漏らすs 罰 she metes out to 乗客s who 辞退する to 交換（する） seats to help young families - and says 80% of her trips are now 疫病／悩ますd by the requests

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A flight attendant has 明らかにする／漏らすd the '罰' she metes out to 乗客s who 辞退する to 交換（する） seats to help families with young children - and says 80 パーセント of her trips are now 疫病／悩ますd by 類似の requests.?

Mitra Amirzadeh, a flight attendant based in Orlando, said seat-交換（する） requests have become so たびたび（訪れる） they occur during eight out of her ten 月毎の 転換s.?

While she rarely 介入するs, Amirzadeh, 38, said she will step in as a meditator when a child is 伴う／関わるd.

If no willing volunteer steps up, she 訴える手段／行楽地s to a more 積極的な approach - 割り当てるing the 乗客 who won't 交換（する） the 役割 of babysitter to the separated child.?

'I have said before, "承認する, so you're going to watch the toddler?" ' she told the 塀で囲む Street 定期刊行物. 'You'll want their 軽食s and their coloring 調書をとる／予約するs then, because they're going to need that.'

Mitra Amirzadeh, a flight attendant based in Orlando, said seat-交換（する） requests have become so たびたび（訪れる） that they occur during eight out of her ten 月毎の 転換s

A former flight attendant has taken to TikTok to 申し込む／申し出 insights into the 見込み of 首尾よく swapping seats

Want to 交流 an aisle or window seat for a 類似の one nearby? You're almost 保証（人）d a yes,' she said in the ビデオ. But 試みる／企てるing to 貿易（する） a middle seat for a coveted aisle or window? Your 半端物s 急落する to a mere 10 to 15 パーセント

Amirzadeh?最高潮の場面d the growing 傾向, with an 増加するing number of requests coming from couples who have been seated 分かれて.

The flight attendant, who serves as a union 代表者／国会議員 for an 航空機による that 器具／実施するs 料金s for 前進する seat 選択, believes 乗客s who 推定する／予想する a 明確な／細部 seat should 支払う／賃金 in 前進する for it.?

'The next time you feel yourself getting angry or getting 失望させるd that you're not getting the seat you want (...) you need to remind yourself you didn't 支払う／賃金 to 選ぶ your seat. さもなければ, you'd be in it,' she told the 塀で囲む Street 定期刊行物.

Another former flight attendant has even taken to TikTok to 申し込む／申し出 insights into the 見込み of 首尾よく swapping seats.?

'Have you ever 手配中の，お尋ね者 to change seats on a 計画（する） to sit next to your friend or partner? Here are seat change success 率s, couples 版,' TikTok 使用者 Jeenie Weenie said in a ビデオ with over 300,000 likes.?

If you are a couple who wants to change seats with a 単独の 乗客 in the same area, she said the 見込み is 近づく 100 パーセント.

'I have never had anyone say no,' she said.

But if the seat change 伴う／関わるs one 乗客 moving to the 支援する of the 計画（する）, that 減少（する）s your chances to about 20 パーセント.?

And if the seat is 近づく a bathroom or crying baby, the success 率 急落するs to about 40 パーセント.?

一方／合間, if you ask a 乗客 to give up their window or aisle seat for a middle seat, the 見込み of them agreeing is even lower at about 10 パーセント.?

But the other way around - 申し込む／申し出ing up a window or aisle seat to a middle seat - that brings up your chances all the way 支援する up to 99.9 パーセント.?

'Want to 交流 an aisle or window seat for a 類似の one nearby? You're almost 保証（人）d a yes,' she said in the ビデオ.?

'But 試みる／企てるing to 貿易（する） a middle seat for a coveted aisle or window? Your 半端物s 急落する to a mere 10 to 15 パーセント.'

To change seats with other classes - she laughs and says please 'don't even try.'

While she rarely 介入するs, Amirzadeh, 38, said she will step in as a meditator when a child is 伴う／関わるd in the seat-swapping requests

航空機による seat 料金s and basic economy 制限s have turned simple seat-交換（する） requests into a 可能性のある problem - いつかs a 劇の spectacle or 議論の的になる 審議 - both on 計画（する）s and online.

乗客s asking to switch seats are often （刑事）被告 of 存在 stingy or self-important while those 拒絶する／低下するing are called selfish and unkind. Flight attendants then get stuck in the middle when 緊張s rise.?

Many seat-switching 演劇s have gone viral in 最近の years - with one 出来事/事件 獲得するing 6.6 million 見解（をとる）s and a f of comments with さまざまな …に反対するing opinions.?

It became so argumentative that the 初めの poster had to 供給する a 詳細（に述べる）d diagram of the seat-switching request before shutting 負かす／撃墜する その上の discussion.

Last year, a?frequently flyer 問題／発行するd a PSA to fellow 旅行者s about seat swapping after he 設立する himself in a nightmare experience that saw him 軍隊d to move five times when he begrudgingly gave up his 位置／汚点／見つけ出す to another 乗客.

He reignited the heated conversation surrounding travel etiquette after a たびたび（訪れる） flyer was 拍手喝采する for 辞退するing to switch seats so a woman could sit by the window.

He 株d his experience in a thread 献身的な to 'Delta 空気／公表する Lines' - 追加するing that the 悲惨な 出来事/事件 took place eight years ago while he was on a flight from New York City to Utah.

Last year, a frequently flyer 問題／発行するd a PSA to fellow 旅行者s about seat swapping after he 設立する himself in a nightmare experience that saw him 軍隊d to move five times when he begrudgingly gave up his 位置／汚点／見つけ出す to another 乗客 (在庫／株 image)

He 株d his experience in a thread 献身的な to Delta 空気／公表する Lines - 追加するing that the 悲惨な 出来事/事件 took place eight years ago on a flight from New York City to Utah

He wrote: 'This was about eight years ago. I'm dead tired. Working and Tinder-ing in NYC for the last week, my first trip ever there. I'm 完全に exhausted from working long hours and 欠如（する） of sleep from going out at night.

飛行機で行くing direct 支援する to SLC in the evening. I'm looking 今後 to 衝突，墜落ing in my seat; I've prepped by taking some Nyquil sleeping pills. The seats to know are in 列／漕ぐ／騒動 12. ABC DEF.'

He clenched his ticket, which read 12F, in his 手渡す as he walked through the 航空機.

Once he arrived to his aisle, he saw that a woman was sitting in his 割り当てるd seat.

'When walking 負かす／撃墜する the aisle to my 列／漕ぐ／騒動. Seats CDEF are all taken. I'm 持つ／拘留するing my ticket for 12F. Of course I について言及する to the woman in my seat that she has my seat.

'She （人命などを）奪う，主張するs it's hers and I must be mistaken. (See one 宣告，判決 before 持つ／拘留するing my ticket in my 手渡す).

'She has to dig through her 捕らえる、獲得する forever to find her ticket to see she has 12A and asks if I'll just take her seat so she won't have to move as she's 'settled'. 罰金. Same seat. It doesn't 事柄 to me. I sit in 12A and 落ちる asleep,' he said.

However, his nap was interrupted when the woman who took his seat approached him and 需要・要求するd her 位置／汚点／見つけ出す 支援する.

'Some moments later the woman from 12F is standing in the aisle （電話線からの）盗聴 my shoulder 説 she needs her seat. She is 持つ／拘留するing her ticket and says she has claustrophobia and needs her seat (12B is empty so now 12A looks better than 12F),' he explained.

にもかかわらず 存在 sure she was '十分な of s***' and just 手配中の，お尋ね者 the middle seat to herself, he 交換（する）s with her once again because it is 公式に her seat.

Nearby 乗客s take notice and tell the man he is 'nice' for putting up with the constant changing of seats.

'I agree, but f*** it, I want to sleep so bad, so I 落ちる 支援する asleep,' he 追加するd.

However, his snooze is once again 混乱に陥れる／中断させるd when the same woman approaches him again.

'Some moments later the woman is waking me up again. She is 申し込む／申し出ing 12A 支援する to me again as she is 苦しむing from a panic attack and has decided to 出口 the 計画（する）. (The door still hadn't の近くにd 予定 to a 延期する waiting for a 操縦する).

'I nod to 12E 説 he should take 12A. He'd have a better seat than the middle seat but he's 'settled' so f*** it I move 支援する over to 12A, 12E ends up 事情に応じて変わる over to 12F, of course and I 落ちる asleep again,' he said.

And yet again the 乗客 is awoken - but this time by another 旅行者 who is now 需要・要求するing he move so that he can sit in 12A.

'Some moments later I'm awoken by a man standing in the aisle 説 I'm in his seat. He's 持つ／拘留するing a freshly printed ticket for 12A as the 計画（する） door is still open and he was 問題／発行するd this seat after the claustrophobic woman left the 計画（する）.

'What can I do? He doesn't know everything that's happened, it's certainly 公式に his seat.

'I'm exhausted and look to 12C and say, 'I'm sorry I'm just going to slide over to 12B, I'm not going to go take my seat 支援する from 12E who is now in my seat 12F. I 落ちる 支援する to sleep,' he 追加するd.

Of course, his slumber doesn't last long. The man from seat 12A now 申し込む／申し出s him the seat 支援する because he has decided to move to the 支援する of the 計画（する）.

He explained: 'Some moments later I'm awoken by the man in 12A who said I can take his seat as he's going to go to the 支援する where there are more open seats.

Etiquette 専門家 Diane Gottsman has 明らかにする／漏らすd the best ways to 説得する someone to 交換（する） seats with you on a flight?

'The 計画（する） has only now just の近くにd the door after sitting at the gate for three hours and is prepping for take off as I settle 支援する in to seat 12A once again to 落ちる asleep.'

At the end of the 地位，任命する, he advised 旅行者s to stay in their seats no 事柄 what.

'Never give up your seat people,' he said.

People flooded the comments section and agreed with the man as many social マスコミ 使用者s 株d their own experiences.

One person said: 'Agreed a million times over.'

How do you go about でっちあげる，人を罪に陥れるing the seat-swapping question? Speaking to MailOnline Travel last year, etiquette 専門家 Diane Gottsman has 明らかにする／漏らすd the best ways to 説得する someone to give up their seat on a flight.

Diane Gottsman, the 創立者 of The 議定書 School of Texas

Gottsman, who is the 創立者 of The 議定書 School of Texas, said: ‘When it comes to switching seats on a 計画（する）, it’s always best to 計画（する） ahead so you can sit next to each other when you 調書をとる／予約する your flight. If that is not possible, it’s a delicate 状況／情勢 to ask someone who has selected their seat in 前進する to switch.’

First and 真っ先の, Gottsman recommends 交流ing an equal seat with the 乗客.?

She said: ‘For example, an aisle for an aisle seat, or a window for a window. It’s 不適切な to ask a person in an aisle seat to switch to a middle seat so you can sit next to a friend or loved one.’

Most 航空機によるs will prioritize seating families together.?

British 航空路s, for instance, 確実にするs each child under 12 years sits next to a 後見人 from the same 調書をとる／予約するing. What’s more, if you're 飛行機で行くing British 航空路s with an 幼児 under two, you can choose a seat for you and everyone in your 調書をとる／予約するing, 解放する／自由な of 告発（する），告訴（する）／料金. Ryanair, 一方／合間, 許すs a 解放する／自由な 配分するd seat to a 最大限 of four children per adult that 購入（する）s a seat.

With this in mind, cabin 乗組員 might be able to lend a helping 手渡す if you're travelling with family, Gottsman 明らかにする／漏らすs.

She said: ‘If the 状況／情勢 is that you would like to sit next to a younger child, [or] family member, of course, it’s 理解できる, and you might even ask the flight attendant for 援助.’